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Monica Ashery has been suffering from Lupus (an autoimmune disease) since 2008 and is now in need of a kidney transplant as soon as possible. Over time her kidney function diminished to the point where she had to begin dialysis in May 2015. Her nephrologist has urged her to begin the evaluation process for placement on the active kidney transplant waiting list. Her evaluations are now almost complete, and Monica has a faith-filled friend who is being tested to become her living donor.
Those who know Monica know that she is a strong Christian who gives thanks for the way the Lord has guided her throughout her life: from its beginnings in a loving Christian family in rural Tanzania, to education at Mount Mary University in Milwaukee, to the birth of her son, to a life as a working single parent, and, during the last few years, to nearly full time self-care as she received medical attention for lupus and its related complications.
Monica looks forward to the time after the transplant when she will have renewed energy and stronger health that will allow her to support herself and more actively contribute to the well-being of those around her and in the global community. She has always been ready to help others – from her family members in Tanzania, to friends and colleagues near and far who need a comforting Bible passage and prayer, as well as to the African immigrants new to life in Milwaukee. She remains active in Brookfield Lutheran Church and with the Milwaukee African Women’s Association, MILAWA, where she is currently the president. Monica also serves as a board member and treasurer of Learn for Life Kenya, a Wisconsin-based nonprofit that promotes education.
Even with insurance Monica will have many uninsured transplant-related expenses such as: co-pays and deductibles, doctor visits and the costly anti-rejection medications that she will need to take for the rest of her life.
To help with the financial burden of Monica’s uninsured expenses, a fundraising campaign in her honor has been established with HelpHOPELive, a trusted nonprofit organization that has been providing community-based fundraising guidance to patients and their families for more than 30 years. All donations are tax deductible, are held by HelpHOPELive in the North-Central Kidney Transplant Fund, and are administered for transplant expenses only. Please consider making a contribution today and click the DONATE NOW button.
Thank you for your continued prayers, support and contributions for Monica.
Janet Wilgus (one of Monica’s American sisters)
janetwilgus@gmail.com
Yesterday, 11/27/16, was exactly four months since Monica was given a life-saving gift; a gift that has no price tag and therefore one, she says, she will never be able to pay back. A gift of a kidney! Here is Monica’s appreciation:
As I continue to celebrate the gift of a new life, I owe my smiles and my ability to function as a normal person to my dear friend Karen Isaacson. Her priceless sacrifice has given me a new lease on life. My sincere thanks go not only to Karen but to the entire family for being so involved wholeheartedly. Thank you for being so caring. Our whole journey was about faith, and it was overwhelming to see God orchestrate things to the very end! Paul put it well in 2 Corinthians 5:7 when he said, “We live by faith, not by sight.” I saw the faith of my donor and her family, and I fell in love with our Lord Jesus Christ over again.
I also extend my genuine appreciation to all my family and friends for your encouraging messages, well wishes and kind words before and after the transplant, and for your prayers and caring hearts during the critical post-surgery months. I know that God heard every prayer made on my behalf, and I thank you. I am thankful for the excellent care that I received at Froedtert, from my surgeon and his team and including all the nurses, assistants, techs, cooks, cleaners, radiologists, transporters, pharmacists, social workers, and financial specialists.
I am awed by the goodness, unconditional love and riches of our Lord Jesus and for the ordinary everyday people He uses in our lives to reach out to us in ways only God Himself knows.
Life without getting up at 4:00 AM to get ready for dialysis three times per week is awesome; I have a new life, and I feel like telling everyone out there not to take their good health for granted. I am grateful to have my health back to a larger percentage. The transitioning was a bit challenging due to a few setbacks in the beginning, but my amazing medical team has made it possible for me to move forward with confidence one day at a time. I am grateful to have a medical team and good support system that helps on managing multiple medical appointments and adjustments of anti-rejection and other medicines that will continue for the rest of my life.
I look forward to an entirely normal life, a full-time job and an opportunity to contribute to the society again. In the meantime, I am enjoying doing what I love most; helping others though on a small scale. My testimony would not have been possible without the Mighty Power of our Lord Jesus Christ and the good news of His Gospel. Our God of creation is still at work; I feel the miraculous blessings all over again!!
Monica has her new kidney! The successful transplant was completed on July 27th. Both Karen, her living donor, and Monica came through the surgery very well. They give thanks to God, to the expert transplant teams at Froedtert Hospital and to the many prayer warriors across the world who continue to hold them in prayer. Praise the Lord!
Good news again! Transplant surgery for Monica and her living donor, Karen, is scheduled for July 27 at Froedtert Hospital. Although Monica and her donor are not the same blood type, a process called plasmapheresis (cleansing the blood of antibodies) will prepare Monica to receive the new kidney. (More information is available at the National Kidney Foundation website, www.kidney.org The transplant team is confident in moving forward with the surgery.
Monica and her living kidney donor have very exciting news!
This is from Karen:
I have been approved to be a living kidney donor to my dear friend Monica Ashery!
I met Monica through Milwaukee Lutheran High School's "Moms in Prayer" group back in 2009. I was struck by her joyful attitude despite her many life challenges. She is a single mom and a native of Tanzania who emigrated here in 1986. She developed kidney disease as a result of lupus and has been on dialysis for over a year. We have become dear friends over the years. In the summer I stop over from time to time with garden produce (including pumpkin leaves which remind her of home when she cooks them), and she sends me home with a feast of homemade African food.
When Monica first started dialysis, I half-jokingly said that I would like to donate my kidney to her. It was a complete pipe dream when I first mentioned it, but from working as a dietician in Dialysis for many years, I do understand what a tough road these patients have. I have been listening to doctors tell our patients for years that their life expectancy and quality is much improved with transplant vs. staying on dialysis. I also know that a donation from a live donor is far more effective than from a cadaver. There has been lots more attention in the media lately to promote living kidney donation.
The work-up process started in earnest back in about January of this year. It included phone calls, paper work, appointments with transplant team members, much blood work, nuclear medicine studies of kidney function, etc., etc. Whew!
So, I am very pleased (and greatly relieved) to know that I am considered to be in excellent health to donate a kidney. I am BLESSED by this process! I have received a whole bunch of free medical workup, have received an education that one could never learn in school, met extraordinary people and have the opportunity to help one person get off dialysis.
Surgery will hopefully take place this summer. We don't know yet if I can donate directly to her. We have different blood types (I'm A, she's O), but there is a process called plasmapheresis that she could undergo to enable a direct donation. If not, we will do a "paired exchange" involving a wider circle of donors and recipients from around the country.
Thank you all so much for your prayers!!
Monica thanks the many people that have reached out to her via this site, email and FaceBook. The notes and prayers are very encouraging
Preparation continues for the transplant. Monica has received official notification that she is now on Froedtert Hospital's Kidney Transplant list for a cadaver kidney. However, the first and best choice for Monica is a kidney from a living donor. Her potential living donor continues to move ahead on the evaluation process, with just a few more steps to complete. Monica's team of doctors are also working to resolve some remaining issues due to her condition of chronic lupus. While the lupus is now in remission, the team needs to be sure that lupus will not adversely affect the transplanted kidney.
Thanks for your continuing support.
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Monica, you make me smile! I love the simple joy of life and health that you express! God is so good!
Karen Isaacson
Blessings, Monica! Thank you, Karen, for stepping up with this special, life-giving gift.
Sue
Monica you are an angel and sister. Monica lives her faith , gives from the heart and is always authentic in her gift of love to others. our prayers and support for Monica is for ever . We love you sister Monica and know that by the grace of God and the support of all of us who love and care about you , you will be fine . We rejoice for the good news from your living donor and continue to pray. With love and Blessings
Mary Onama and family
Sweet Monica,
It is our privilege to know and love you as you travel this path in your life. May you be a witness to everyone you meet along the way! With love and best wishes,
Linda and Jim
Prayers for healing, dear Monica. So grateful for the lovely lady you are, for your beautiful smile, for loving little Sarah. Surely will be keeping you in prayer.
Michele Stamn
You are a faith filled inspiration to all who meet you. You are beautiful inside and out. May God continue to bless you, heal you and keep you in His care.
Sandy Rades
You are a blessing to Life in Jesus Kids. Thank you for volunteering your time with the kids at BLC. You are in my thoughts and prayers.-Jenny Otto
Jenny Otto
Make checks payable to:
Help Hope Live
Note in memo:
In honor of Monica Ashery
Mail to:
Help Hope Live
2 Radnor Corporate Center
Suite 100
100 Matsonford Road
Radnor, PA 19087
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