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Help HOPE Live for Stephen Nicholls

Dear family and friends of Steve Nicholls,

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May 18, 2024

Spring has come and with the warmth and longer days it feels to be out again! May 31 marks Hope in Action! On this day donations to the national nonprofit @Help Hope Live for my campaign will go further than ever. Help Hope Live will cover the credit card fee donations in my honor at helphopelive.org. Please consider making a donation during Hope in Action on May 31 or helping me spread the word - or both THANK YOU! Your support means everything to me and allows for my continuing care.

January 1, 2024

Dear Friends and Family,

It's hard to believe that another year has come to an end. For me, it's a time of reflection and a time of anticipation. I am now approaching the 3rd anniversary of my accident.

I want to take a moment to thank you all for your financial support this past year in helping to cover the cost of my daily care. As most of you know I have two full time caregivers, Julie who comes in the mornings to get me up and going, and Alex who comes in the evenings to get me to bed. Both the morning and evening routines are quite complicated and time consuming. This care is not covered by insurance and is a completely out of pocket monthly expense. I need and appreciate any financial contributions you can give to my Help Hope Live Campaign, which is a tax-deductible donation to be used solely for my unreimbursed medical/care expenses.

This allows me to stay living and working in my apartment and to continue to make progress with my physical therapy and mental health.

This year I have had some new medical challenges beginning in March with a pressure sore on my right heel. This turned into a five month ordeal requiring multiple doctor’s appointments at Craig Hospital and limiting my physical therapy options. Thankfully, once it finally healed in August, I was able to resume my weekly physical therapy sessions and I am once again increasing my torso strength and muscle mass.

I also had my second annual Outpatient Evaluation at Craig Hospital in May, where the doctors determined that my physical limitations remain largely the same, so continued daily care from my caregivers is my only option. This is an added cost of $4500 a month that is not covered by insurance.

Kate and I had a bright spot in June when we went to the courthouse to officially obtain and submit our marriage license, followed by a small but welcome celebration with both of our mothers in attendance. This small ceremony was a drastic change to our original exchanging of vows which took place in the hospital in 2021!

In September I came down with Covid and continued to test positive for about 6 weeks. I really did not like the further isolation, but I was grateful for the around the clock care I received from my caregiver Julie, and also, Kate. I am most grateful to have made a full recovery and be out of my room!

Most recently in early December I suffered a second degree burn on my upper left thigh when I unknowingly spilled a very hot cup of coffee on my leg. I could not feel it and did not realize the severity until the damage was done. Subsequently I have had two surgeries and a hospital stay to control the cellulitis infection and have a skin graft. Thankfully it appears to be healing and I am looking forward to resuming my physical therapy once again.

I have learned a great deal about myself this year, how to cope with setbacks with resilience and my stubborn nature. I am learning how I fit into this new world with my spinal cord injury, navigating my wheelchair and being mindful of how and where I can push myself towards increased independence. I have learned a lot about how strangers perceive me and how I am finally beginning to recognize myself. I notice things now about life and people and circumstances that I never would have before, as I have so much more time for reflection. For this I am grateful and truly humbled by the love and support I have received from all of you.

I also had several small yet significant achievements. I learned how to push the elevator call buttons, (I also got stuck in one a few times), unlock my front door from the inside, normalize pooping my pants, opening the patio door to escape onto the balcony for some sun, and most importantly how to change the channel on the TV.

My wish is to continue to experience life to my fullest extent in this coming year, and therefore I again ask you to please donate to my Help Hope Live Campaign, I thank you profoundly and I wish you all a very Happy and Healthy New Year!

Steve

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Guestbook

January 15, 2025

Steve,
We believe in your long term health and prosperity.
Godspeed.
Joe and Jean Graff

Joseph Graff

December 3, 2024

Like you always say, "I think it goes!"
Love ya brother, Kunkle

Jeff Kunkle

November 24, 2024

We love you Papa Nics ♥️ You continue to inspire us every day.

Peyton Mancini