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Help Hope Live for Harmony Perez

Harmony needs your help with expenses related to her recovery from a spinal stroke!

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June 24, 2025

June 12th, 2025 by Harmony Perez, OrganizerSo much has happened since my last update. Over the past month, I’ve done the unimaginable — things that made me feel like I was on top of the world and reminded me that I can accomplish anything. In May, I had the life-changing opportunity to attend what I lovingly call “Shepherd Camp.” It’s a yearly weekend adventure for Shepherd alumni — an action-packed experience that brought me back to life. I went boat tubing, jet skiing, target shooting, rock climbing, zip lining — and that’s just scratching the surface. And get this — I discovered I’m a great swimmer even while paralyzed. I float! I’ve even got a mean backstroke. Anyone want to race? The timing couldn’t have been better. Before camp, I was falling into a bit of a slump, overwhelmed by everything I couldn’t do — and honestly, I still can’t. But Shepherd Camp reminded me of everything I can do. It lifted me up, helped me reconnect with joy, and made me feel alive, powerful, and capable again. It was absolutely incredible. Then… something else amazing happened. A couple weeks later, Chris, the girls, our dog, and I went on our first family vacation since my double spinal strokes. We took a 5+ hour drive to visit my Godmother who now lives near Myrtle Beach and guess what?! Myrtle Beach State Park has beach wheelchairs you can reserve and use for FREE! If you know me, you know my deep love for the ocean. After my strokes, I was heartbroken thinking I’d never again feel the sand or watch my girls play in the ocean. But this trip changed that. Chris pushed me down to the shoreline, and with the help from my Uncle Frank, I was able to sit in the sand and watch the waves crash over my legs. I couldn’t feel them the way I used to, but just being there was everything. I sat there for hours with minimal help, soaking in the sun. Tears of happiness streamed down my face as I watched my family laugh, play, and make memories I’ll hold onto forever. It was pure magic. But like all good vacations… it had to come to an end. We returned home — and reality hit hard. Chris is now back to working full-time in the office, which means I need to hire in-home help for some of my most crucial daily needs. Sadly, insurance won’t cover it. So now we’re left asking: Where will the money come from? Truthfully... your guess is as good as mine. And just when we thought we were close to another big win — independent driving — we hit another roadblock. Despite our best efforts, we recently discovered that my wheelchair is not compatible with the interlocking system in my car. Say what!? So now we’re faced with a few tough options: A different car A different wheelchair Or a skilled welder to somehow make them work together All three options feel completely out of reach right now. And without a solution, I can’t drive. That makes Chris going back to work even harder, as I’m unable to independently get to my many medical appointments or be the personal chauffeur my kids so badly miss. Oh — and remember the incredible custom stairlift we were able to get thanks to a generous donation? Well, it was installed months ago… and has now been sent back twice due to miscalculations. Each time, it takes 4–8 weeks to come back. Each time it gets removed, it’s another heartbreak — especially for my girls, who just want me to be able to come up to their rooms. I’m holding on to hope that by my next update, I’ll finally be able to say: “It’s just right.” I truly hope my story continues to reach far and wide — and that prayers, support, and donations will keep coming in. Every bit helps. Every share could reach someone who’s willing to lend a hand. Please share this with anyone and everyone. From the bottom of my heart — thank you.

May 5, 2025

Hello friends, family, and supporters, It’s hard to believe, but April 22nd, 2025 marks one year since Harmony’s spinal stroke—an event that changed our lives in ways we could never have imagined. As we reflect on everything this past year has brought, I wanted to make sure you had the chance to read Harmony’s heartfelt post from Facebook. Her words speak volumes about the pain, the perseverance, and the love that have carried us through. Thank you for continuing to walk alongside us on this journey.Here’s Harmony’s post: One Year Later Today, 4/22/25 marks one year since my 1st spinal stroke — a moment that changed everything.I came across this photo for the first time today, and it stopped me in my tracks. In it, I’m silently screaming in agony, in excruciating pain. It’s a moment frozen in time, and yet it still feels so fresh. That photo captures the beginning of a journey I never imagined I’d have to take. This picture Chris captured the very 1st time he took me to the hospital. For me, it is such a hard picture for me to look at.This past year has been incredibly hard — physically, emotionally, mentally. Every single day is a battle, but I’m still here. I’m still pushing forward, I'm strong and determined holding on for my two beautiful daughters, my amazing husband, and the hope of better days. There’s progress, yes. But there’s also still so many challenges ahead — especially the financial strain that comes with something like this.So I’m reaching out. If you’re able to help by donating or even just sharing this post, it would mean the world to us. Your support, love, and encouragement have carried me this far. I see you, I feel you, and I am so deeply grateful.#SpinalStrokeSurvivor #OneYearStronger #SilentStrength #HealingInProgress #FamilyLove #GratitudeInTheStorm

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Guestbook

April 14, 2025

Praying for your strength along this arduous journey. ❤

Ellen Woodson

March 24, 2025

God Bless your family! - Dr Desai and rest of our team @ Lavista Park Family Dentistry

jigar desai

March 7, 2025

Many prayers for you and your family!

Claire Pettys