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Make It Happen for Madi Challenge… Holding on for Dear Life

The “Make It Happen for Madi Challenge” is fundraising to help Madi continue medically necessary, high-level, life-sustaining, mental health care that is no longer being covered by insurance, despite the recommendations of her psychiatrist and therapists. To save her life, she was admitted to a residential treatment care facility that specializes in helping teens regain hope… We humbly need your help. To read her FULL STORY, click “See All” under “Updates” and find the first post dated March 19.

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June 19, 2025

Know What You Don't KNOW!Kids Need Our Wisdom... KNOW!I think I found my purpose in life... one of them haha! I fell into this acronym by just trying to formulate resources for parents who may not know what we have learned on this treacherous journey. Since working with Help Hope Live, I've been asked so many questions. Pay it forward and in God's hands... so away I run with this notion to KNOW!

June 18, 2025

We had an AMAZING visit with Madi this past weekend… pictures are posted below (June 18th). She passed her 3rd value packet two days before we went so she was able to stay overnight with us in the hotel and wear her own clothes… HOORAY!!! She and I stayed up until 3:00 am the first night just chatting about everything… able to say and tap into things we can’t on a 5-10 minute call or in a one-hour therapy session. I was so thankful for that time, particularly so “mom could be mom” again (because the boys were sleeping haha!).

When we picked her up, Nate practically tackled her with a smothering hug that they both almost fell over! None of us expected that… it was so stinking awesome!

I can see the value of baby-step visits… 2 hour, 6 hour, overnight… next up is a 7-day home visit once she passes her next step… but it will be a while. But my point is that it’s easy to put on a happy face for a few hours, but when the hours continued, I was able to notice her struggle to “stay happy” if that makes sense. It was very eye opening to see first hand that she is dealing with a disease, a clinical condition that she cannot just “get over” but needs to learn how to manage in healthy ways. So heart wrenching! Especially since we learned last week that the meds she’s taking do not “gel” with her genetic makeup-up… UGH!!!!!!

Yes people… there is a genetic test that can be done to see if mental health meds are working with your genetic make-up! I’m furious they don’t tell people about this test when they first make suggestions of going on meds!!! So for a year and a half… wrong meds!! Someone tell MUSC Dept. Of Psychiatry about this test!!!!! If insurance doesn’t pay, the most out of pocket is $350… so worth it!! We learned her depression meds are in the RED!!!! Anxiety meds are YELLOW!! Nothing in the green :( Her current Psychiatrist didn’t want to change until after our visit, so I’m hoping that will help her better succeed at what she’s trying so hard to overcome. “Genesight” is the company… spread the word!!! It’s a simple cotton swab of the cheek! More people need to know about that.

Regardless, back to our amazing visit… Rob was able to get a pontoon boat and tube so the kids could still have our yearly pastime on the water. They never stopped talking on that tube! I loved every minute of it!!! I miss her. We want her home. But there’s still so much more to do… and she’s a fighter so I know she will get it done. Thank you always for the love and support and all the prayers… keep ‘em coming!!! xoxo

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June 20, 2025

Sending strength to Madeline and the family

Tara Holwegner

May 30, 2025

Sending prayers for Madeline and her family.

Much Love. Mary C

Mary Casaceli

May 30, 2025

Continuing to pray for you all.

Den & Laura Popp