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While away at college in November 2013, Aaron became ill with an extremely aggressive strain of Neisseria (bacterial) meningitis for which there is not a U.S. approved vaccine. While meningococcal disease is often fatal, doctors were able to save Aaron’s life but unfortunately had to amputate both his lower legs after the meningitis led to sepsis (blood infection) and disseminated intravascular coagulation (DIC) which caused these severe complications. Antibiotics have since eradicated the meningitis, however Aaron now faces a long and challenging road to recovery.
Aaron is a very special person and has touched many lives.Even with insurance he will have many uninsured illness-related expenses such as: co-pays and deductibles, prosthetics and the costly rehab therapy which will help him regain strength and personal independence.
To help offset such expenses, a fundraising campaign in Aaron’s honor has been established with HelpHOPELive, a nonprofit organization that has been assisting the transplant community for 30 years. In 2000, they expanded their mission to include those who have sustained a catastrophic injury or illness. All contributions are tax-deductible, are held by HelpHOPELive in the Southwest Catastrophic Illness Fund, and are administered by HelpHOPELive for injury-related expenses only. Please consider making an end-of-year tax-deductible donation today by clicking the Donate Now button.
Thank you so very much. Your support, prayers and positive thoughts are greatly appreciated
Aaron’s friends and family.
Take a few minutes to watch Aaron and his San Diego Ducks Sled Hockey Team. Awesome
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6gLaCainz2M
Award-winning video about Aaron's journey: https://vimeo.com/121055901
http://www.nbcsandiego.com/news/local/Meningitis-Patients-Aaron-Loy-Mother-Thrilled-About-New-Vaccine--280884162.html
Healing Takes Time - 2/16
Time seems to pass so slowly when you’re anxiously waiting for that eventful “next step”. Aaron continues to recover from his numerous wounds. The healing and strengthening of his skin grafts largely pace his recovery. He wishes he had the magic to accelerate this maturing phase, which is a critical precursor to being fit for prosthetics. Aaron has teamed with a fabulous prosthetist, one who is nationally recognized for helping young athletes return to the sports they love.
While healing, Aaron has been out and about, visiting friends and eating at his favorites. He visited Santa Barbara, reconnected with his dormmates and attended a couple UCSB lacrosse games. His attendance was mutually healing for both him and his teammates.
With each event and the passing of each day, we have a greater appreciation of how fortunate we are. Aaron continues to recover from a near fatal disease, one that tragically impacts far too many. And while he survived with significant life-changing injuries, it could have been far worse.
We’re thankful for his wonderful team of doctors, specialists and therapists who are committed to Aaron's recovery. Our family is thankful for all the support and generosity from the community, organizations, businesses and amazing individuals. Kudos to those who sponsored and attended the recent fund-raisers: Soup Plantation, 3rd-Corner, Chick-fil-A, Pandora Pizza and Ritas. We owe so much...to so many.
Aaron says hello and sends a huge THANK YOU.
Out and About - 1/31/14
While some choose to “hole up" while they heal… Aaron is out being Aaron.
As you know, Aaron is a big soccer fan and an accomplished player. Without hesitation, when he learned that his former LCC (high school) soccer team was playing Carlsbad (where several of his club teammates played) at his home field, he wanted to go to the game.
It’s always been difficult for Aaron to show up at events unnoticed. He's known by so many…peers, parents, younger kids, alumni, fans. Friday night was no different. As Aaron got wheeled into the stadium, he was spotted by the announcer…who proudly broadcasted his arrival. Fans and players on both sides of the field stood up and cheered his return. It was the first time for many to see Aaron, since he headed off to UCSB last September. It was a special "healing moment" for both Aaron and the community.
Aaron continues to embrace the challenges and rewards of his journey ahead. While his body recovers, his spirits and optimism remain high.
He understands that..."Your present circumstances don't determine where you can go; they merely determine where you start" (Nido Qubein)
There's No Place Like Home - 1/25/14
Aaron’s road trip started 11wks ago with a with a life-saving sprint to the ER in SB with his quick-thinking, selfless dorm mates. Three hospitals, an air medi-vac ride, 60 doctors, 80+ nurses/specialists and a dozen surgeries later...Aaron finally made it home. With no surprise to anyone, Aaron got the "clear to go home" as he readily mastered the physical and occupational therapy requirements at Sharp Rehab Hospital.
We believe it was a combination of science, divine assistance and Aaron’s youth, fitness and fighting spirit...that enabled him to weather that wicked (near fatal) storm. Everyone’s prayers, tireless support and generous offerings played an important role in his recovery. Just as the Seattle Seahawks applaud their 12th man (their fans) in their run for this year's Super Bowl…we thank you for your role in helping bring Aaron home.
Moving forward, we have assembled a great team of doctors, specialists and therapists, whose collective goal is to get Aaron back to UCSB this Fall. His prosthetic team will begin their art, once Aaron’s grafts are healed.
Once again, the Loy's THANK EVERYONE for their cards, messages, donations, gifts, meals and countless, continuing acts of kindness and generosity. We regret missing the“Lacrosse Shootout” and the “Play for Aaron” soccer events. We are forever grateful to all those who organized and contributed to the various fund raising events for Aaron. The Jimmy Gillan car wash, the Fish Market/Chick-fil-A/Rita’s dining events and all the X-mas ornament, jewelry, bake, and garage sales. A special thanks to those young kids who dropped off an envelope of money which they made from their lemonade sale.
The community has come out in mass to honor and support Aaron. Your wonderful acts of support and generosity will absolutely help Aaron live a rich and full life...a life full of friends, family, education, sports and adventure.
We Thank You All.
Reached Base Camp #3 - Thank you UCSD Burn Center - 1/13/13
Glad to report that Aaron has successfully transitioned to Base Camp #3...Sharp Memorial Hospital for rehabilitation.
HUGE THANK YOU...to the outstanding doctors, surgeons, nurses and specialists at UCSD Hospital. Outstanding science. Great care-givers. Fantastic people. The entire nursing staff in the Burn ICU are PHENOMENAL.
While Aaron's wound sites continue to heal, he has begun a rigorous daily schedule of occupational and physical therapy sessions. In addition to learning new life skills, Aaron is working hard to regain strength, flexibility and dexterity in the muscle groups which were inactive for the past couple months. Diet (protein) and sleep remain important components for his muscle re-development and tissue repair.
It's been a long 9 weeks, with unbelievable support, love and generosity from his vast team of supporters. The Loy family is so appreciative, as we recognize everyone's contribution to Aaron's ascent back to full health.
Thank you all.
Hanging with My Brother - 1/7/14
As Aaron’s sister, home from school for Thanksgiving and Christmas breaks, I treasured the time hanging with my brother. Seeing his smile, his determination, and his bravery is inspirational beyond words. Aaron faces his challenges with courageous determination and unwavering optimism. He works through many reps of physical therapy to strengthen his body. He's had to endure lying on his sides and stomach for days after his painful skin graft surgery. He's had scores of stitches and staples, takes daily regiments of awful medications and shots, and has undergone a dozen surgeries. Yet he wakes up every morning with a bright smile. He asks the nurses how their days have been. He cheers on the Chargers with enthusiasm.
Its been amazing to watch his progression. He has re-mastered the use of his laptop and loves watching surfing and snowboarding videos. His appetite has grown, and now includes Board and Brew (with extra sauce), Jersey Mike's and burritos. Aaron’s spirit has remained generally strong throughout his hospital stay. I love seeing him fall back into his old self. The other night, even with his heavily bandaged arms, he was able to reach out, tickle and pinch me as I was feeding him dinner. Our sibling banter is back, and I couldn’t be happier!
Aaron’s skin grafts and donor sites are healing on schedule. His arms, hands, and fingers are getting stronger each day. His UCSD hospital days are numbered. Aaron can’t wait to come home!
I am very grateful of all the generosity that people have shown my brother. Aaron enjoys reading every card, listening to every message, opening every gift, and hearing of the various events held in his honor.
This past weekend, the Carlsbad United (formerly Lightning) soccer club (Aaron's competitive soccer club of 7 years) held a two-day tournament / fundraiser. Clubs of various ages played in honor of Aaron, including a match between his former high school team (LCC) and his competitive club team. THANK YOU...Shawn Koutahi, Paddy Trolan and Janie for brainstorming and orchestrating this awesome event. And like all successful events…HUGE KUDOs to the scores of volunteers, sponsors, players, families and fans who made it happen.
And Thank you Kimberly Renna and Kim Harvey for all that you're doing for my brother,
Happy New Year - 1/1/17
It’s been one of Aaron’s toughest weeks yet, as he’s been recovering from last Friday’s complex skin grafting surgery. We are so fortunate that Aaron has access to the amazing procedures, advanced technology and dedicated physicians at UCSD. We’re SO GLAD that those very painful “first 72 hours” are over.
We’ve been reading various books and quotes to Aaron…he particularly liked these two quotes (thank you Aisling...Lindsey's college roommate)
“Tough times never last, but tough people do” - Robert H.Schuller
“What lies behind you and what lies in front of you, pales in comparison to what lies inside of you” - Ralph Waldo Emerson.
Assuming his grafts and donor site continue to heal, Aaron knows he’s rounding the final turn. Protein, therapy and rest will help him down the home stretch.
Aaron was touched and hugely appreciative of the support from the lacrosse community. Last weekend 400+ boys, young men and “oldsters” met at Aaron’s high school La Costa Canyon (LCC), to play the sport he loves most. THANK YOU EVERYONE for honoring Aaron. Jesse Foss, Gillan, Bome, Mummaus, Harveys, Zieglers, Nishioka, Fredericks, Goddards, Sanschagrin, Alicia and countless others. Thank you to the dozens of parents and players who helped organize, volunteer and coach the event. Thank you Coach Allan, Coach Miller and his UCSB Lax teammates who came to Encinitas to play in honor of Aaron. These genuine acts of love and support provide a valuable “tailwind” to Aaron’s recovery
The Loys wish everyone a heathy and prosperous 2014.
Happy Holidays - Laptops and Snowboarding 12/27/13
Aaron is amazing…even more resilient and brave than I had realized.
The Loy’s celebrated a wonderful Christmas at UCSD hospital…but unanimously vowed to pick a different venue for next year’s ritual. While we’ll race to forget many aspects of our stay(s)…we’ll always remember and appreciate the fabulous care and support that the nursing staffs at both UCSD and Cottage hospitals have provided Aaron. Nothing short of spectacular. What an amazing profession! What amazing professionals! Thank you all.
Yesterday was an epic (Aaron's terminology) day. Upon my arrival at the hospital, Aaron proudly demonstrated that he was able to operate his laptop. His hands and fingers had regained enough strength and dexterity to navigate his favorites…YouTube, Netflix, Hulu and iTunes. A major achievement thinking back on all those anxious days and nights…hoping he could feel our touch, wishing he could squeeze our hands. Last night, he asked us to help him with one last “set” of physical therapy…arms, wrists, fingers, legs, knees…knowing that he was going to be immobilized for several days following today's surgery (skin grafts). Before I left, he invited me to join him in watching a gnarly “Red Bull-sponsored” extreme snowboarding video. Yesterday provided a great insight into Aaron’s mindset. He is ready to move on and master the next step...and knows that today's surgery is one of his final “speed bumps”.
Please join us in wishing Aaron minimal pain and a speedy recovery. And please offer a hug and a HUGE THANK YOU to any nurse or caregiver that you know…they are truly awesome!
Chargers Support - 12/23/13
Like our San Diego Chargers, Aaron keeps fighting and improving each week. Nick Novak (place kicker) and Darren Bennett (retired punter) paid a valuable visit to Aaron last week. Great boost for Aaron…another heartfelt display of unconditional support from our wonderful community. And another display of genuine love and “give-back” from Darren.
While Aaron’s path to recovery has many dips and turns…his overall health continues to improve. His mind and body are now able to better focus on his remaining wounds…no longer having to expend valuable resources fighting sepsis, various infections and fever.
Aaron’s skin grafting procedure (arms and legs) is scheduled for this Friday. It’s an important procedure that requires all wounds sites to be optimally ready.
Aaron is keenly aware and hugely appreciative of everything that everyone’s doing for him. While he’d like to say hello and thank everyone personally…he knows the importance of focusing all his energies on getting through the next few weeks of procedures.
Happy Holidays from Aaron and the entire Loy family.
Please read this story posted to the Santa Barbara Independent Podcast
http://www.independent.com/news/2013/dec/23/positive-amid-sea-negative/
Thank You Fish Market - Del Mar
By The Loy Family — 12-19-2013
“Seared ahi and raw oysters.” That’s what Aaron said he missed when he heard of the successful fund raising event at the Del Mar Fish Market. Thanks everyone who dined on Aaron’s behalf. A huge THANK YOU to the Fish Market for being generous hosts. Strange coincidence...we had a memorable going away dinner for Aaron (UCSB send-off) at the same Fish Market restaurant. He looks forward to booking a reservation there soon.
Thinking about seafood and fishing...wanted to share this photo from Aaron’s maiden fishing voyage (Fall 2012), where “of course” he landed the largest Big Eye tuna on the trip. Great memories as he the bagged the $250 jackpot.
With his commitment to nutrition and therapy, Aaron gets stronger each day. The flexibility in his arms and the dexterity in his hands and fingers is remarkable. "Hats off" to modern medicine and the power of healing.
Aaron is scheduled for surgery on Friday morning. He begins a painful round of skin grafts to repair wounds on his arms and legs. He’s in great hands at UCSD Burn Center. With each surgery…he’s gets one step closer to the exit.
Lacrosse Shootout in honor of Aaron Loy December 28, 2013 (click link for details or to donate to HelpHOPELive in honor of Aaron)
http://www.insidelacrosse.com/news/2013/12/17/ucsb-la-costa-canyon-player-aaron-loy-holding-shootout-he-battles-meningitis
A Great Friday the 13th
By The Loy Family — Dec 14, 2013 3:06pm
Surgery days are particularly tough…both for Aaron and for us (as well-wishers). Aaron’s not allowed to eat or drink anything, beginning midnight the night before. And when his surgery is scheduled for late the following afternoon, hunger and thirst add further discomfort to his anxiety of having to wait for "the call" to the OR. And then there's the dreaded post-surgical pain.
Friday’s procedures were successful as his medical team continued the lengthy task of repairing his numerous wounds and injuries. Fortunately, as painful as each procedure is...Aaron knows that each one brings him one step closer to coming home.
The encouraging results of Friday's surgery, coupled with minimal post-surgical pain, brought a positive end to a very difficult week. Aaron’s spirits are on the up-tick. Perhaps due to the trio of Coach Allan (his UCSB lacrosse coach) coming to visit, his sister Lindsey returning from college, and his close friend stopping by prior to today’s surgery. Maybe it was the Tibetan prayer flags given by a family friend. Perhaps the Chargers' victory on Thursday night played a part. What ever the combo...it was a Great Friday the 13th.
Thanks again for everyone’s generous donations to Aaron via HelpHopeLive.com https://www.bit.ly/HHLAaronLoy
Your generosity will help Aaron when he leaves the hospital and begins his long journey of rehabilitation and then back to his pursuits at UCSB.
December 11, 2013
Wonderful Campout Surprise - Wed 12/11
Had the privilege of camping out with Aaron last night at UCSD (hospital) as he recovers from the post-surgical pain from Monday's procedures. While he's still in considerable discomfort, Aaron's qualities still shine bright.
We reflected back on all those memorable father/son Y-Indian Guide (Puma Tribe) camping events we enjoyed together. Great memories!
Despite still being heavily bandaged, Aaron proudly demonstrated his latest advancement. After multiple therapy sessions...and numerous "sets" by himself, he showed me that he could move all ten fingers. Major accomplishment...recognizing the brutality of the disease. Hopefully his pain subsides over the coming days. While its still very much a roller-coster...Aaron continues to get stronger each day. He's Staying Loy Strong!
December 9, 2013
Stay Strong Aaron - Monday 12/9
Aaron's well-wishers come in all sizes and from all parts of the country. Bobby Gavin (12 yrs old from Laguna Beach) wore a special message for Aaron at a recent lacrosse tournament.
Aaron is scheduled for surgery this afternoon to address/repair his various wounds. We're fortunate to have Bobby and hundreds of others are rooting for Aaron's speedy recovery.
December 6, 2013
No Pain...No Gain - Friday 12/6
Aaron’s condition continues to improve each day. Having watched him practice and compete in multiple sports for the past dozen years…I haven't seen him persevere through such tearful workouts as he is with his current team of therapists. As painful as each session is…Aaron knows that his path to full recovery has no shortcuts.
His overall body and various wounds continue to heal with his daily regiment of nutrition, therapy and rest. His next surgery is scheduled for early next week. Aaron's spirits and commitment to return to UCSB are remarkable. The entire UCSD Medical staff are outstanding and are dedicated to help Aaron achieve his goals.
To date…all media/news teams have been very respectful of Aaron’s condition and are supportive in helping us address our committed interests:
1) Raising awareness of the symptoms and early treatment nisseria (bacterial) meningitis
2) Accelerating the approval and availability of the serogroup-B vaccination
3) Raising appropriate resources for Aaron (and other victims) to fully recover from this devastating disease.
December 3, 2013
Cyber Monday...Beginning the Ascent - Tuesday 12/3
To many…Mondays represent the end of one period and the start of another. We are optimistic that yesterday’s Monday marks the beginning of a new phase…the bottoming of Aaron’s challenging ride and the beginning of his ascent.
Aaron is improving both physically and mentally. With his intubation tube out, his speech, strength and awareness improve incrementally each day. These “baby steps” are actually “HUGE STEPS” recognizing the severity of where he was. He is currently being nourished via hi-protein, vitamin-enriched tube-feeding, while he develops his taste/appetite for UCSD hospital cuisine (far different than his Habit burgers, Freebird burritos and DG dining commons tendencies). He relishes his daily Jamba Juice…those simple pleasures in life!
Throughout yesterday afternoon and into the night, Aaron underwent a successful series of surgical procedures to repair his various skin and tissue wounds. The heeling process is particularly complex in a post-sepsis/DIC case. Infection remains a dangerous foe. Doctors reported very favorable progress in his healing and were optimistic in his overall health and recovery.
Aaron’s spirits remain generally positive and are fueled by the genuine love and support of his family, friends and community. Each day we read to him the multitude of cards and social messaging. His LCC lacrosse and soccer teammates made a video… sharing words of encouragement. His UCSB friends, lacrosse teammates and coaches are also connected to his recovery. Even the Cardiff Kook joined the contagious “Get Well Aaron” club.
Huge thanks to the Encinitas community who are organizing and conducting various fund raising activities. We hope that the growing media exposure brings velocity to the availability of vaccines to prevent other Nisseria-serogroup B incidents. The love and generosity of the community is truly appreciated as it helps fuel Aaron’s courageous fight.
December 2, 2013
Suds and Smiles -
Today turned out to be a perfect day for a car wash…. and by all accounts it was a huge success. What an affirmation of our amazing community who pulled this together, from the friends waving signs to those scrubbing and vacuuming cars and others who designed and sold bracelets. You're so awesome.
You all should know that you made Aaron smile at the pictures, and he actually got out a “that’s so cool.” On a tough, long day in the hospital, he was thinking about all that positive energy going on at the car wash, asking several times how it was going and who was there. For bringing him the knowledge that so many care about him and will make huge efforts on his behalf, we give you all yet another heartfelt thank you. You lifted Aaron’s spirits when he needed a boost.
Thanks so much to Jimmy Gillan for hosting the event at Rancho Auto Body, and Kim and Kimberly who have organized ways to collect donations. To all Aaron’s soccer and lax teammates and friends who were back from college, and those who are still in high school, love your smiles and willingness to help! It meant so much to him.
Lastly, thanks to all of you who have contributed to Aaron’s recovery funds. We are blessed to have you all enveloping Aaron and our family with your support, and it will make a real difference in the future.
Love to all,
Mike and Kirsten
November 30, 2013I
Ice chips, peaches and apple sauce. We were excited to be “back in the stands” this morning, watching and cheering for Aaron as he completed an important proficiency test with a therapist …proving that he could both chew and swallow. Of course Aaron nailed it! Battle-hardened by all those timed shuttle runs, endless push-ups, lung-bursting ladders/gassers…Aaron’s competitive spirit will help him recover.
Yesterday we were greeted by a wonderful surprise from the doctors. We walked into Aaron’s room and found him fully conscious and beaming that energetic/ magnetic smile. Despite being a bit “hoarse,” Aaron was ecstatic to be rid of his intubation tube and able to communicate. His fever, heart rate and blood pressure are all trending back to normal. His doctors are weaning him off all drip antibiotics, sedation and pain medication.
Aaron is still groggy from the weeks of heavy sedation and pain meds, but is trying to piece together those missing frames. We watch him glancing and smiling at his hospital wall, full of posters and photos from his various well-wishers (UCSB, LCC, lacrosse families, LCC and family). He particularly likes the signed poster from his UCSB dorm mates.
Join us in our excitement for Aaron and the significant steps he’s made in the past 24hrs…but acknowledge that his journey ahead is lengthy. Please keep the hope & healing energy flowing!
November 28, 2013
Happy Thanksgiving!
Having been in a deep fog for the past two weeks, we truly doubt that Aaron has a sense of the calendar. But beginning late yesterday afternoon and throughout the evening, Aaron's increased presence, awareness and overall improved health shine a wonderful light on this otherwise challenged Thanksgiving Day weekend.
Over the past couple days, its been easy to slip to the “darkside,” feeling helpless and emotionally fatigued as Aaron battles infection, adjustments to medication, high fevers, and pain. As a parent, its indescribable to watch Aaron anxiously awake to the unfamiliar surroundings and personnel of the ICU, the confines of the bandages and the choking of the intubation tubes. Given the opportunity...we’d fight for the honor to switch places with Aaron.
Finally late yesterday…the momentum began shifting. Aaron resilient spirit and inherent strength began breaking through. His heart rate and fever are down. He’s increasingly conscious and able to interact with his medical team and us. His doctors continue to be impressed with his pulmonary functions (thank you soccer & lacrosse). They have him back on breathing exercises with the ventilator turned off. Aaron is increasingly aware of the colorful wall of photos, cards and posters provided by his supportive fan club. Our personal batteries get re-energized when we see him smile (around his ventilator tube) and when his eyes widen with curious interest when we mention the names of his best friends.
The support from the community and well-wishers from around the country is incredible. We are immensely appreciative and forever grateful. We simply ask that everyone continue to focus their energy and prayers on Aaron’s recovery.
Have a wonderful Thanksgiving.
Best Wishes from the Loys
November 26, 2013
Roller Coaster -
As parents, it’s difficult to watch our children in pain. And it’s even harder riding the gut-wrenching roller coaster of diagnosis, surgery, waiting, and recovery. Yesterday Aaron underwent a 4 ½ hour surgery to redress his various wound sites, begin the painful grafting process, and remove problem tissue which has been causing his high fever over the past couple days. Hopefully they’ve removed all the necrotic tissue, which has been impeding his recovery.
As expected, Aaron continues to fight hard to recover. He is becoming more conscious and can feel the pain of his wounds and the discomfort of his numerous restraints. His increased agitation and pain make it difficult for the doctors to optimize his pain and sedation medications. Aaron has demonstrated increased capability to breath without the ventilator; however, they may elect to keep him intubated a bit longer while he recovers from yesterday’s surgery.
Again we thank everyone for their genuine love and amazing support for Aaron. Please “turn up the power”… as the next couple of days are important (to his recovery).
November 24, 2013
Watching the Stats -
As parents, we are our kid’s greatest fans and at times their strongest critics. We’re always watching their stats; always conscious of their scores. Their chapter quizzes, book reports, SAT/ACT scores, batting averages, number of goals, assists & groundballs. We are always keenly interested in “how they’re doing.”
Today we’re fixated on a new set of stats: his blood pressure, platelet count, white blood cells, hemoglobin, various respiratory metrics and infection markers. Aaron’s stats are good and improving steadily.
Due to the complexity and severity of Aaron’s illness (neisseria meningitis) the doctors are encouraging us to track his progress against weekly comparatives. Being anxious parents and his greatest fans… we watch them day-to-day. And we’re pleased that Saturday’s stats are better than Friday’s…and are now looking forward to Aaron’s Sunday performance.
We've been reading all the cards, emails, and messages you have sent to Aaron over the past two days – We believe he's hearing your heartfelt wishes in his dreams. Certain words are repeated over and over…strong...fighter...heart-melting smile...kind…love...there for you...friends forever…love you man. How could this mantra of positivity not bring him comfort and hope? We thank you all from the bottom of our hearts...from little Coco’s pictures to our neighborhood’s gifts...our family’s daily support...all our friends from Santa Barbara to Switzerland. It all makes a difference.
Please keep rooting Aaron on with your prayers and best wishes.
Mike and Kirsten
November 23, 2013
Found a wonderful applicable quote…
"You have to accept the storms and the rainy days and the things in life that you sometimes don't want to face."
It’s been raining/drizzling in San Diego since Aaron’s procedure on Wednesday. Perhaps there’s a link.
Actually Aaron has always liked the rain. We remember his adventurous years growing up in England, visiting castles, hiking through the hills of Scotland and Wales, touring historic towns/sites throughout Europe…often dressed in his “wellies” and Gortex…stomping through every puddle he could find. Those were wonderful formative years for our kids and family.
As the clouds begin to break this afternoon and the sun begins to fight through…so does Aaron. He’s whipped the fever that has been challenging him for the past couple days. His wounds are slowly healing and his vital signs continue to strengthen. He is undergoing twice daily testing/exercises…preparing him to have his ventilator removed (hopefully in the next few days).
Aaron’s biggest foe is infection. And to optimize his healing environment, the medical team is encouraging us to limit his exposure to outside germs.
Aaron is aware of the massive support from his fan base(s). We’re constantly reading the cards, web-messages and voice-memos to Aaron. I've been enjoying (for Aaron of course) the SI Swimsuit addition that one of his UCSB mates sent him. While the journey ahead is long…we’re optimistic that he’s on the mend.
November 21, 2013
First of all...Kirsten, Lindsey and Mike would like to thank everyone's heartfelt display of love and affection to our family. All your prayers, messages, photos, flowers and positive thoughts are helping Aaron survive
UCSD medical staff has been wonderful, with both their science and love in treating Aaron. The strain of Meningococcal disease that Aaron contracted was uniquely devastating. It spread rapidly through his bloodstream and severely affected his organs, tissues and vascular system. Had his suite mates not gotten Aaron to the ER, or had the doctors not treated him as quickly/aggressively as they did, the outcome would have certainly been fatal.
Antibiotics have since eradicated the Neisseria meningitidis bacteria, however Aaron's body is valiantly fighting to recover from the destructive effects of the toxins, severe sepsis (blood infection) and disseminated intravascular coagulation (DIC). We learned early on that this strain of meningitis caused Aaron's vascular system to both clot and bleed uncontrollably. Paradoxically, while some tissues were hemorrhaging, clots were being formed in other blood vessels, cutting off critical blood supply. Without blood supply, organs and tissue cannot survive. Aaron's doctors heroically used various medications, surgeries and procedures to restore vascular flow to his arms and legs. Unfortunately the clotting in his feet was too severe and inaccessible (micro capillaries). Tragically the tissue, muscle and nerves in his feet became irreversibly necrotic. Yesterday Aaron's feet were amputated to save his lower legs and to reduce the risk of further infection.
While we all wish Aaron a swift and directly forward recovery, the course of healing sometimes requires unfortunate steps backward. Yesterday's procedure was non-elective. It was essential to his survival and functional recovery. Aaron can currently breathe on his own, however remains on ventilator for the next week to enable doctors to better manage his sedation and pain medications. His kidneys have recovered fully, his blood chemistry is returning to normal, and his neurological responses are awakening. Aaron faces a series of surgeries over the coming weeks to close fasciotomies, repair tissue/skin njuries, and complete the amputations.
While the journey ahead will be challenging, Aaron's team of doctors, specialists and nurses advise that Aaron youth, fitness, personality and fighting spirit are invaluable assets in his fight to conquer this nasty disease.
Please continue to your prayers and best wishes for Aaron.
Mike & Kirsten
November 18, 2013
One day at atime…one play at a time. Aaron’s competitive genes are in play.
The doctors have been conducting extensive tests/evaluations to determine the full extent of Aaron's injuries. It’s been scary to watch and even more painful to wait. The UCSD medical team has determined that there are no other significant complications beyond those identified by his Santa Barbara physicians. They continue to monitor his critical vascular issues (lower legs) and treat his skin & tissue injuries. There’s a lot of “wait & see” in terms of monitoring his recovery and treating infections.
The day ended on a high. The medical teams have been telling us all along to talk to him, as he likely can hear our voices. Prior to leaving the hospital tonight, Aaron opened his eyes. He supposedly responded when someone mentioned that Lindsey was coming home in a couple days. It was wonderful reconnecting with him as he opened his eyes and responded to our voices. We left him to rest, as tomorrow will bring the rigors of additional treatments for his wounds and further evaluations of his feet.
We thank everyone for their love and support to Aaron. The walls of his room will be plastered with your kind “wishes for health & recovery” which he will see when he awakes.
November 18, 2013
Hi everyone,
While Aaron begins another round of surgery, it will be only be a few days until he will be awake and aware of his surroundings. The nurses said that it is so uplifting for patients to have cards, pictures, small handmade posters, balloons, etc. decorating their walls, and so we are asking you to help us if you want to. Please send cards to our house, or drop something off on our front porch (no plants are allowed in the burn unit) as soon as you can.
Love you all,
Kirsten
November 17, 2013
Glad to have Aaron back home in San Diego. He arrived last night via air medevac. An amazingly skilled flight team provided a comfortable ride home. Can't say enough about the entire medical team in Cottage Hospital who saved his life.
Beginning last night, Aaron's new team of physicians, specialists and nurses aggressively began familiarizing themselves with his medical case. Today they began conducting a series of tests and procedures to fully characterize and treat his interrelated issues. Their focus includes improving profusion to his legs, treating the extensive skin/tissue damage and eradicating any signs of infection. Over the coming days they will be conducting a number of surgeries to promote tissue recovery.
Aaron will tap into his broad SD support network to obtain the best medical care possible. Aaron remains in critical condition and needs everyone's prayers to recover.
Aaron's fan base is amazing! Gabe Renna wore #4 (Aaron's jersey #) while kicking for Carnegie Mellon yesterday. Johnny Gavin's little brother Bobby is wearing a special message for Aaron on his lacrosse helmet in a tournament yesterday.
The Loy family thanks you all!!
November 16, 2013
Just a quick note to say that Aaron's plane trip was quick and uneventful. He needs some rest before he begins his next phase of treatment and recovery, and won't be able to receive visitors at the burn unit for awhile. What a wonderful way to arrive home to posters and decorations all showing your love and appreciation of Aaron - thanks to those who did this! Keep you posted....
November 16, 2013
Aaron's vital signs continue to hold stable as he is prepped to leave Cottage Hospital by helicopter to UCSD's burn unit in San Diego. While we are sad to leave behind the amazingly professional and caring staff here in SB, we are reassured that a top-notch burn unit with its capability for wound care is exactly the right place for him as he enters the next stage of his recovery. At this point, infection prevention will be critical. As soon as he leaves, we will be jumping in the car for the four hour drive back down to SD. We will post a picture of his leave-taking as soon as possible. Your posts and comments are providing us with so much comfort and positive feelings - we can't express our appreciation fully.
Love you all,
Kirsten and Mike
November 15, 2013
Aaron's fabulous team of doctors, nurses and specialists have advised that Aaron is progressing relatively well. He appears to have fought off and defeated the nasty bacteria and the resulting sepsis condition. His organs are functioning normally and his vital signs are strong. They are advising that he be moved to a different facility which is better equipped and experienced in treating his numerous wounds and compromised tissue conditions. They preparing to move him as soon as possible and several regional centers are being considered. The doctors have advised that one of the the biggest concerns during this next phase is wound infection, and recommend that we limit his exposure to outside germs. As expected Aaron's a warrior and is fighting tough. Keep bringing the love!
November 15, 2013
Friends and family of Aaron,
First of all, thank you for your ongoing prayers, healing thoughts, and words of encouragement and support.
So much has happened since Aaron entered the hospital onTuesday. The rapid development, complexity, and severity of his condition have been more than we possibly could have imagined.
As of this morning, Aaron is still in the Medical Intensive Care Unit at Cottage Hospital. His condition is still critical, and he remains unconscious due to sedation, as he has been since Tuesday. It has been necessary to keep him unconscious so that the various procedures and surgeries could be performed. He is on arespirator while sedated, but is capable of breathing on his own.
The good news is that Aaron’s condition has improved significantly over the last 36 hours. His vital signs such as breathing, blood pressure, heart rate, and temperature are close to normal, his appearance has improved, his kidneys are functioning well, and the laboratory results indicate that his blood chemistry is slowly starting to return to normal. The doctors believe that his underlying infection has been successfully treated by the antibiotics. Aaron still is very sick, however, and will be facing a difficult recovery, but we believe that our greatest fear - that he might lose his life - is finally behind us.
Despite the improvements in his overall condition, however, the damage caused by the infection to his peripheral vasculature remains a very serious threat to his health. He has had three surgeries to alleviate the swelling in his limbs, remove blood clots, and attempt to restore circulation to his extremities. These procedures included fasciotomies, which essentially laid open the fascia surrounding the large muscle groups on Aaron’sarms, legs, and feet to relieve the pressure on his arteries caused by inflammation and swelling. The wounds from the fasciotomies will be kept openuntil the swelling subsides sufficiently. Thankfully, these interventions have been successful at restoring bloodflow to his hands, but his feet remain at risk. The doctors are also using aggressive drug therapy to try to break downthe clotting in his peripheral arteries and capillaries that have restricted the blood flow in his feet. Restoring circulation to Aaron’s feet is now the biggest challenge that he faces.
We cannot say enough about the doctors, nurses, and technicians that are treating Aaron. Dozens of medical professionals have contributed to his care, and their collective efforts have saved his life from an infection that has an extremely high mortality rate. The dedication and commitment ofthe people that are caring for Aaron has been amazing and inspiring, and the love and compassion shown by the medical staff at Cottage Hospital has been equal to their skill.
While Aaron remains in such critical condition, please continue to use this website for information and communication. We are all looking forward to the day when he can have visitors, but for now our efforts are focused on making sure that he continues to get the care he needs, for the best possible outcome. Please hug your children and pray for Aaron.
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November 14, 2013
Aaron has been taken into the OR for another surgery on his feet/legs to get blood flow. There are several specialists involved from orthopedic surgeons to vascular specialists to a trauma doctor. The gist of it is that they are not sure exactly what they will be doing to his feet until they begin, but it could look like angioplasty where they can find clots and remove them, to opening up his feet to relieve pressure and potentially get blood flow. They are anxious to see if his muscle tissue is still healthy. He is in critical condition and needs everyone's prayers to get through this surgery with an optimistic prognosis for his feet.
Love you all for your support,
Mike, Kirsten, Lindsey, and Aaron
November 13, 2013
After several hours of monitoring and rest, Aaron continues to show some positive signs. Using a nitroglycerin drip, they have strengthened the pulse in his right foot which means more blood going to that foot! He has a feeding tube that is giving him small and constant amount of liquid nutrition. Specialists have come in and out giving their opinions about his blood platelets and the issue with his foot, and the liver specialist is pleased with the improved kidney function. At the moment, we are waiting for renal tests and blood clotting tests, so that the hematologist can make a decision about giving him a treatment that would thin his blood further in order to get more blood to his extremities. Whichever way the doctors decide, we hope he will have a healing, restful night.
Thanks so much for the outpouring of well wishes for Aaron and our family - so powerful!
November 13, 2013
Aaron just returned from morning surgery to relieve the dangerous pressure in his forearms (compartment syndrome). The procedure went well and was very well timed
Aaron remains in critical condition, unconscious and breathing on a ventilator. Fortunately his kidney function has returned.
While the infection seems to be subsiding, their focus is addressing the damage from the aggressive disease (foot tissue and clotting and vascular functions)
Dr's suggest holding off from visiting for a few days. Dr said Aaron's suite mates' responsive actions saved Aaron's life. Thanks so much, Daniel, Grant, Tyler, Josh, and Sean.
Aaron needs everyone's collective prayers and positive energy. He will having an afternoon of rest and recovery.
November 13, 2013
Aaron had a long night, although he doesn't know it. At 3:00 am he went into the operating room for a fasciotomy on both of his lower legs to improve his circulation and prevent permanent tissue and nerve damage (its called compartment syndrome). There were concerns about bleeding as his blood is out of whack due to the infection; however, the surgery was pretty successful and a pulse was detected in his feet which was a huge relief. Another plus was that his kidneys started working again, so no dialysis will be needed. The doctors were pleased, but added that he is not out of the woods and is considered "critical." Several hours later, doctors decided that his arms were also in danger of compartment syndrome, and he is currently in surgery for another fasciotomy. Poor guy, but you know he is in excellent shape. Thanks so much for your texts, calls, messages, and posts! When Aaron is awake, I will read them to him, and I know that each one will make him that much stronger. Visiting him at the moment is not a good idea - he is not awake and has a tube in his throat. Will keep you posted as he will be at Cottage Hospital in Santa Barbara for a while. Love you all, Mike and Kirsten
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Our thoughts are with you as you heal and begin to experience life on your new legs. We wish you all the best.
Darlene and Dan Fahey(Alec Brown's grandparents)
The UCSB softball team and their families sends all our love your way. Your courage, strength and integrity are truly an inspiration for all athletes and students, and we send loving prayers and good wishes your way. Lots of love from the softball families at UCSB!
Julie Stark
From your fans at LC35 -
Phil, Rob, Bruce, Andrew, Laser & Prep
Aaron, I am a neighbor of yours, and both of my daughters went to LCCHS as well. My youngest, Elise, had two brain surgeries, so I have some idea of what you are going through. My prayers are with you and though I don't know you personally, what I've read about you tells me that you are strong and a survivor. God bless you!
Luan Lissner
Hello Aaron, We are neighbors of Colleen's Mom and Dad. We have been praying for you and so admire your courage. Thank you for being an inspiration to all of us.
Gwenda Burkhardt
Aaron and Family, our thoughts and prayers are with you. We lost a son to meningitis and now focus on helping victims and families who have also been affected. Please let us know if you need any further assistance. Best to you and your recovery.
The Dylan McNeil Foundation
Hello Aaron, I am George Bailey's Mother. He has told me about you. Please know that our family is thinking of you and hope the best in your recovery.
Suzanne Popp DDS
Dear Aaron and Loy Family,
We have mutual friends who have the highest regards of you... and of your family.
Our hearts and prayers to you say Godspeed.
Anonymous
A strong spirit will carry you wherever you want to go. We do not know you, but we know your story and wish you the best as you face your challenges. Keep your eyes on the horizon.
Beth Krom
Dear Aaron, Although we don't know you personally, we are very touched by your story. Our daughter went to LCC with you and speaks highly of you. Stay strong and know that your community is supporting you. We look forward to following your progress. With love and support,
The Aston Family
Dear Aaron,
Hope you are getting a little better every day. I hope you know how many people are rooting for you. I think the Carlsbad/Encinitas community feels a little bit like you are "their" son, and wants the best for you. We are here to help in whatever way we can.
Continued healing to you,
Tracy Romero
Dear Aaron, " Courage is contagious. When a brave young man takes a stand, the spines of others are often stiffened".( Billy Graham) I doubt that I have ever met a more courageous young man than you. You and your family have definitely been a shinning example to literally thousands. The love and compassion in your heart Aaron, whenever one looks at your smiling face, is truly obvious. Your 'Thank-You' to The Fish Market was greatly appreciated and the donations for that one Tuesday night was $9,703.20!! We are on a roll Aaron, with thousands standing with you and behind you, loving and cheering you on to success!!! xoxo
Anonymous
Our hearts go out to you and your family. We wish you a speedy recovery and all the best in the future.
The Ballin family (our son is a UCSB student)
Donation made from ticket raffle to Tower of Power concert. More "Power" to Aaron and best wishes for the New Year from North County Sun Entertainment.
Andy Lee
Dear Aaron,
Rita's Carlsbad along with Encinitas Mayor Barth, City Council member Lisa Shaffer, and Lightning Coach Shawn Koutahi are sending you get well wishes! Stay strong!
The staff at Rita's Carlsbad
Aaron and Loy Family. On behalf of the Solomon Family and the La Costa Community we are proud to be apart of the #Prayforaaron wrist band campaign. The local community raised over $2,300 purchasing $5. wrist bands. Our family donated the tax deductible portion totaling a $3,500 donation. Your are always in our thoughts and prayers kiddo. Brian, Kimara, Caitlin, Andrew and Cassidy
Brian and Kimara
Aaron you don't know us, but we support you. Sending in a check for your fund.
the Fosters
Aaron. Our son Dakota had Neisseria (bacterial) meningitis as well. He had a long recovery but Dakota is now playing Lacrosse at Bellarmine University in Kentucky. Had we have known about the Lacrosse fundraiser sooner we would have flown Dakota up there to support it. He sent a small donation to you directly but we wanted to reach out to you and let you know how amazing you are and how much we truly are behind you and want to support you in anyway we can. You are going to do amazing!!
The Hollister Family
BC,Canada
The Hollister Family BC- Canada
Aaron our Christmas Eve raffle yielded $350.00 in your honor. You are an inspiration & great plans are ahead for your life. Happy Holidays. You are on our minds daily
The Loke Folk holiday guests!
I'll keep you in my prayers Aaron. I wish you a speedy recovery.
Pierre Senecal
Aaron, I am constantly thinking about you after I heard these dreadful news, so many of us are thinking of you, and it clearly shows that you are not alone and you never will be.
Mathilde Senecal
This is the beginning of a new path for you. Stay strong. We do think of you and your family....Nos pensees les plus affectueuses vont vers vous!
Corinne & Richard Senecal
Hi Aaron stay strong and keep up your strength prayers and good wishes are with you
Marion & Tony
Hello Aaron,
We were so sorry to hear about illness and are constantly thinking about you and your recovery. Our daughter also attended UCSB and can't imagine the difficulty you and your parents are going through now. Just wanted you to know our thoughts are with you. ( I am friends with your grandmother, Terry)
Liz Cook
Sending you and your family tons of positivity and best wishes.
Dorothea Feng (colleague and friend of Andrew Harvey)
We are praying for you. God bless you and your family.
OMBAC/Beachcomber Lacrosse Club
As a cousin through your dad, it would be a pleasure to donate towards your recuperation. We are in SC constantly thinking of all what you are doing through. Your roughest days are over and the rest is up to you. Prayers and best wishes to you and your family. Best regards to your parents and sister.
Roger and Alice Young
We are here to light up Aaron's Christmas! Sean can't wait to have you back UCSB - go Gauchos!
Love - The Harvey Family
Kim Harvey
Dear Aaron and Family -
As you are our cousin, we decided to donate to HelpHopeLive in your behalf as a part of our end of year giving. We're encouraged to hear about the progress you're making. Sending our best wishes and love to you and your family.
Rose Young, an East coast cousin
Dear Aaron and family, we are a fellow UCSB freshman family following your journey. Thanks for the updates! Glad to hear you are staying Loy Strong! And hoping your protein diet includes some holiday cookies. ;)
The Fues family
Our thoughts are prayers and with you and your family, stay strong, heal fast!
The Aleshire Family
Good thoughts are with you.
Josh Lamour UCSB Class of '95
Dear Aaron and all the Loys,
The Olivenhain Pioneer School sixth graders and their families held a bake sale in your honor. The entire community...those who know you and those who don't turned out to support you...we sold out over a thousand baked goods. May this news give you renewed strength, courage, and determination in the healing process.
Jenny Taylor
Aaron and family - We don't know you personally, but we are holding all of you in our hearts and sending positive, encouraging thoughts to you every day. (Our son is also a freshman at UCSB.)
The Boyers Family, Los Altos CA
Though we don't know you, our prayers are with you. Wishing you courage and determination for the future. (Parents of a UCSB junior)
Pillai Family
Aaron, we pray for you and your family many times every day. We know that with God's help, the support of your wonderful family and friends, and your own incredible strength and determination, you will meet every challenge and overcome every obstacle. We are sending you our love and best wishes as you recover.
The Kasselmann Family
We've never met but I heard about you from the Cain family. I am sending good thoughts your way and hope it helps you to know that many many people care about you.
Maxine New
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Our daughter is a freshman at UCSB and we have been paying close attention to the outbreak. My son had bacterial meningitis when he was very young. We are praying for your family and for Aaron's recovery and return to school.
Sandy Laws
Aaron,
Keep up the fight and staying "Loy Strong". Our family is thinking and praying for you and your family.
Patrick & Simone Fanene
DEAR AARON,
WE ARE PRAYING FOR YOUR RECOVERY. WE THINK OF YOU OFTEN. WE HAVE A GRANDSON THAT JUST STARTED YOUR HS AND HIS BROTHERS (TWINS) ARE FRESHMAN AT SANTA BARBARA, JOHN AND JERRY GUESS. YOU SEEM TO HAVE A GREAT DEAL OF CARING PEOPLE BEHIND YOU. THE VERY BEST TO YOU
TOM AND TONI
BORREGO SPRINGS CA
TOM AND TONI
Aaron,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you for a speedy recovery and return to UCSB. You are strong and can do it!
Collin Ramondetta and family
Dear Aaron,
May you continue to get stronger every day and know that you are loved by those who know you, and even those who don't, like me. My neighbors and I are holding a yard sale to raise money for your expenses on Jan. 11. If you know anyone in the Carlsbad/Encinitas area who would like to donate items, they can email me at sdromeros@hotmail.com Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers each day.
Tracy Romero
Dear Loy Family,
The Mission Estancia Families held a bake sale to raise money for Aaron. We all pray everyday for his speedy recovery.
Regards,
Your Mission Estancia Family
Beth Weissman
Aaron, You are an amazing, accomplished young man. Have confidence knowing that you have a loyal fan base supporting your recovery and continued accomplishments. God bless you.
Ellen Arneson-DeChristopher
Aaron - I look forward to the day when you are back at UCSB - I know you can do it.
Richard Scott
Dear Aaron,
Though I don't know you, I knew in my heart that I wanted to help and that others in the UCSB community would help me or my family if we were in the same situation. I pray for your recovery and the strength that you and your family will need for the future. May God Bless you and your family!
The Stevenson Family; San Jose, CA
Dear Aaron and Family,
Special prayers to you and your family.
Fondly, The Soares', Modesto, CA
Dear Aaron, I heard about your illness as I have a daughter that attends UCSB. You are an incredibly brave fighter. I know the road is long and full of difficult challenges. You have been in our prayers each and every morning and we will continue to pray for you during your recovery process. Much to you
Joan and Peter Novak
From Andrew Beacham LCC LAX 2017 and family we wish Aaron only the best in his healing and recovery
Dave Beacham
Dear Aaron,
I heard about your situation through my friend who has a son also at UC Santa Barbara. I grieve that this happened. Still I believe that if you dig down deep and make the choice, you will do what it takes to continue on with your incredible life. This doesn't define you, this is merely a big bump in the story of your life. You are still you - intelligent, handsome, talented, spirited, obviously a go-getter. You will overcome this and become a driving force in this world. Super best wishes are sent to you from me and my family.
Kimmy Burres-Liliedahl, a mom with 2 college kids
Dear aaron and family. we are so sorry to hear what happened to u. our thoughts and prayers are with you. we hope you get better. I hope god takes care of u and protects u. u have all ur family to lean on for support! All ur friends will be there for u! This is a terrible thing that needs to stop. there needs to be a cure. We have been heart broken and devasted. :[ please receive this from us. we send u lots of huggs. u are a strong young man. May god bless u always.
Barbie & Jesus
Loy family, our prayers are with you, we know personally how difficult this time is. We loss a daughter several years ago to this same terrible disease.
Puglio family
Dear Aaron and Loy Family - Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Ungun family
Hi Aaron,
Please remember that for every ADVERSITY there is always a fruitful side of it.
Think POSITIVE!
Never give up!
Do not let NEGATIVE thoughts control you. YOU control them! YOU are the driver!
"I believe I can do it!"
Be strong!
The LEE family from Malaysia!
Dear Aaron and family,
We are so sorry for all that you are going through; my son is a freshman at UCSB and all of our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
The Ortenberg family
The Dresser Family from Walnut Creek sends Aaron wishes for the speediest recovery possible. The entire Cal Poly Men's lacrosse team is supporting you Aaron!
Joe Dresser and family (Jill, Bruce, Jessica, and Scott)
Dear Aaron and family:
My heart goes out to all of you. I have a son on his last year of college at UCSB. On his Junior year of HS he was diagnosed with a chronic disease and was told he would be on medication for the rest of his life. My prayers go out for you and your family that God give you strenght and hope to carry on. I met a wonderful woman by the name of Renee Bondi. She lives in San Juan Capistrano. Renee is a quadrapligic, Christian angelical singer and much more. Please take a moment to look her up and read her testimonial. She has written books and recorded CD's. She is very inspirational! Her web site is reneebondi.com. Blessings!
The Corona Family
Dear Aaron and family,
We continue to pray for your healing each day.
The Kohatsu Family, UCSB parents and student, Victoria
When you go away to college, you don't expect challenges like this. We all feel confused and alarmed at what has happened. Know that our prayers are with you and your family. Keep the faith.
Aren Latimer class of 1980
Thinking of you Aaron and your whole family too as you fight this unimaginable fight.
The Beresford family
Aaron and family, my heart goes out to you! I hope you find the strength and courage to embark on a new, challenging life journey. I hope too, for your return to your chosen college (where my daughter is a freshman). The entire UCSB family will welcome you back with open arms!
Warmest wishes for your recovery.
rcn, Sunnyvale, California
My daughter at LCC Told me about Aaron and this fight. We plan to be at the Dec 18 Light Up Aaron's Christmas event. Have you consideredt o notify your local girl and boy scout troop leaders in north county and have them invite their troop members?? Such a good event to attend to provide support!
Julie Bonsack, Parent
Your extended Gaucho family is with you Aaron. Please know we are praying for you and will support you.
Jeff and Leslie Klonoff
Aaron and Family,
Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you. I'm a mom of a UCSB student and it broke my heart to hear what happened to you. God will give you strength to pull you through!
The Mondares Family
Aaron and family. My son is a student@ UCSB and we are your neighbors in San Marcos. Please know that we are praying for you and your entire family...Remember God is with you in these tough times.
K Tweedie-Cook and family
Aaron,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. My son is at UCSB and I know your classmates, even those you do not know, are praying for you. God Bless you.
Josie Arth
Aaron,
My daugher is a freshman at UCSB and live in the same dorm as you. When she told me I was devastated as a mother. I probably drove her crazy because I kept asking her if she had any updates on your recovery. I am so sorry for what you have gone through and will go through and my heart aches to you and your family but God has given you a second chance for a reason so be strong, never give up!! You are a true miracle and inspiration to others your will to fight!
Leea and Gilbert Ramirez and Family
Aaron and family,
My son attends UCSB and although I do not know you personally, I grieve with you in this life challenge and will be lifting you up in prayer daily. You never may know why you were chosen to take this path, but this one thing I know -- lean in and be open for the doors that will open to you. God has a good plan for you, even if it is not what you planned. God bless you.
D Davis
Our thoughts and prayers to you, Aaron.
The Baer Family
Gary Baer
Aaron, our thoughts are with you. Stay strong during your recovery and know that we are all thinking of you.
The Arata-Reshes Family
Dear Aaron and Family,
We wish you strength on the road ahead of you and hope that you know that you are not walking this road alone. So very many UCSB students and their families are walking this road with you and your family - we are all rooting for you and know you are an amazing person who continues to have a bright and exciting future. We are thinking of you and sending you lots of positive energy.
Much love to you,
The Hauldren Family (UCSB family of Sophomore, Amy Hauldren)
God bless you & give you strength.
Mom of a UCSB freshman
Dear Aaron, our thoughts are with you.
The Ginat Family
Dear Aaron,
My daughter is a freshman at UCSB also and says that so many of your co-students (even those you don't know) have a heavy heart for what you've been through and pray you come back soon. Prayer requests at my church have been fulfilled in your honor, for your strength and courage to get you through this. God helps us through every challenge and promises to break down barriers to save us. Take His hand and be the best that you can be for others. You look to be a strong man, embrace your life Aaron and prove to the world that it is not the circumstance that defines you. Our hearts are with you sweetheart.
Sincerely,
UCSB Mom
Lisa Castaneda
Dear Aaron,
We are certain that a new path leading to previously unimaginable opportunities will soon lay before you. We pray that you embark upon it with courage, determination and loving support of your family. We are your well wishers!
The Youssefi family, fresh Gauchos
Arron
I have been praying for you everyday since my son ,a freshman told me if your illness. Your life has done a 180 but believe me when I say GOD has a plan for you. Your rehabs will be gruling but you will get back up and walk. Life changes like your are hard to comprehend but there will be a moment in the future when your disability will become your gift to human king. Be strong have faith that god has a plan for you- you may end up being a saint. Helping people with your courage and humility. You are alive, and thanks to research in medician will live a very full life. Don't lose faith in the kink of kings. He has wonderful thinks planned for your future. You just have to persafear through the recovered and rehab.
You WILL have a wonderful life.
God bless you and read the bible.
It's gods instruction book. If you follow the word of god your life will be wonderful no matter what. The bible IS Gods instructions for a everlasting life. The earth is nothing compared to heaven. My prays are with you
Be strong you can do it.
Your life has changed but it might bring new thoughts and compassion
Make the best of it. You will become a better person maybe even a saint
STAY POSITIVE YOUR ALIVE AND CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN THIS WORLD IF YOU DO. I am praying you can lean on Jesus through this hard painful and difficult time
My heart aches for you and your family. May your recovery be a positive one
Bless you
Anne Nantt
Aaron,
Fight the fight and look ahead, for His light is shining brightly on you! We are praying for you and your family.
The Boffa family (UCSB parents)
The Peffers' Family prays for your continued recovery and we hope you will one day soon be able to continue with your education and your bright future. Life is such a gift and you have so much to live for and give to others while you're here for this moment in time. We all do. God Bless You on your journey.
Judy Peffers
Life can be random and cruel but I can tell by the photos that you can handle the long road ahead. Your family and others will be there for "love boosts" to get you through this. I want you to know that we've been through a long hard illness with a child and through amputations with my brother and more, so this is not some Pollyanna talking. Because of those experiences and more, I can assure you, there are happy endings out there despite new "normals". Our very best to you while you are on the road to your happy ending. Soak up the love and have hope.
a mom, ex-Phys rehab RN, and UCSB parent
Dear Aaron and Family,
You are part of the UCSB family and our love and support are there for you. Please know that so many are thinking of you.
The Fischer Family, UCSB parents and student
Our daughter who goes to UCSB and our heart goes out to you and your family. This is very tragic, but stay strong, our prayers are with you...
Niloo
Our prayers go out to you and we pray you grow stronger every day. We will keep you in our hearts and prayers and may you be surrounded by those that encourage you and bring you joy to face each day.
The West Family
As a mother of others at UCSB; I consider you one of mine too! Prayers always!
The Christiansen Family, Lake Sherwood, CA
Aaron, mission estancia hopes you get better soon. We miss you. I was inspired by you when came into Mr.Cotters class and talked last year. You might remember me, I was the girl that sat right in front of the desk you sat at. Well we all LOVE AND MISS you,sincerely The Me wild cats
Anja
Thinking of you on your road to recovery. You'll get through this and come out even stronger! I know all of UCSB is thinking of you. Sincerely, another UCSB student,
Brooke Scher
Aaron, So many are thinking of you every day on each step of your challenging journey. Stay strong!
UCSB family
Aaron, I hope you get well soon. Please be comforted by your family and close friends who are fighting for your recovery. I hope that you can continue your academic career very soon and still participate in athletics and in all that you love. I am a staff at UCSB and I don't know you. But I feel for you and am so sorry for what you are going through right now. Stay strong.
Sharon Wang
I am so sorry for all that you have endured, Aaron, and am sending positive thoughts your way. I graduated from UCSB in 1990. My 16-year-old daughter is interested in going to UCSB, and is also interested in becoming a prosthetist. From the research we've done, I know that they are doing amazing things with prosthetics these days, and the profession is filled with very caring people. You sound like a wonderful young man, and I have no doubt that you will emerge from this even stronger - and that you will go back to being as athletic and physically active as you want to be. Best wishes in your recovery! Go Gauchos!
Christine Mitchell
Aaron,
We met you summer of 2012. We have been reading about your recovery and know you will succeed.
Scott & Patti Haiduck Naperville IL
Dear Aaron, We wish you courage, strength and tenacity during your recovery process. You are never far from our thoughts and prayers Aaron. Keep up the good work and continue to move forward. During the difficult moments, please remember that the whole community is behind you providing love and support.
Barbara, Neville, Arman and Aysha Sedgwick-Billimoria
Aaron,
People in the community are behind you and care! My family wishes you a speedy and full recovery.
Susan Tharp
Del Mar
Susan Tharp
To Aaron and family, many positive thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time, for your recovery and healing.
Jan Crompton
I'm a UCSB alum, and want you to know there are many of us thinking of you during this extraordinary & challenging time. Aaron is in our thoughts & prayers.
Linda
Aaron, Kirsten, Mike and Lindsey - You all continue to be in our hearts and our prayers. We hope that Aaron has a full recovery and that his inner strength and courage helps him overcome any barriers that he might encounter along the way. We all believe in you! Please don't hesitate to let us know if there is ANYTHING we can do.
Sending hugs to all-
Pamela & David (Sophie Baron's parents)
Pamela Mann & David Baron (Sophie's parents)
God Bless You, Aaron.
Deena
so very sorry this happened to you. May God bless you and help you deal with all of this. You have such a kind face, I hope you don't let this awful trauma that has happened to you, define your life. Stay strong and focused :)
barbara
Dear Aaron,
We are sending our prayers and god speed for a speedy recovery. We don't know you, but my kids are at CCA, and saw Mr. Hartley speaking on the news. We wish you all the best for recovery, and forward into a bright future.
Linda, Jacob and Lily
Saw the news last night and made the connection when I saw your dad in one of the photos. I worked with your dad for many years at REMEC. My family is thinking of you and hoping for a speedy recovery.
Mike Mondloch
Hi Aaron, I learned about you on face book from my friend and CAF advocate Nick Roumonada. I know that as you feel stronger and stronger you will continue to stay active in sports and inspire others. sending prayers for a speedy recovery.
Margaret D Ziedin -tweet: HippyFairy
Dear Aaron,
We will keep you in our prayers and may God bring you peace through this trial in your life. Good luck to you in your new life and school studies.
Carpinteria Friends
I saw part of your story on the TV news tonight, and my heart went out to you and your family. Our youngest daughter contacted meningococcal meningitis, when she was just a year old, and it was a miracle that she survived as it moved so fast that it had caused her spine to become ridgid and fluid to collect in her brain. She had high fevers and was so sick. The doctors did not give us much hope. As I said, it was truly a miracle that she made it through, and not left with any severe issues. We had seven other children and had to worry about them catching it, but none of them did as she did not have this type. This was 49 years ago, but thank God we had brilliant doctors who identified the problem quickly, and were able to treat her and knew what needed to be done, the rest was left to God. Now, she is such a beautiful, extremely bright, successful, and lovely woman, wife and mother, but I will never forget the fright and what it took to make her 100%. It took six months of doctors visits, to finally get a clean bill of health.
It is a terrible disease, and there are different causes. We really need to bring more attention to the disease itself, and ensure, that everyone becomes aware of what symptoms may occur and what to do when they suspect it might be this so that it can caught early. It is best to err on the side of caution then to not look into it and the worse happen.
I always worry about it whenever any of my grandchildren get sick and show the symptoms. The always want to wait, but when they have two or more of the symptoms, off to the doctor we insist they go. Young people need to not wait when they get sick to go to get help and to go the doctor.
You are so courageous, and I hope that you will come through this ordeal strong and able to do what you want to do.
I pray they find a cure for all of the different types of meningitis, without the cost of limbs or anything else.
God Bless you and give you strength to fight this till you have achieved your goals. I will keep yuou in my prayers.
Anna Colandreo
May your heart feel the Grace of the love and light you've ignited in all the hearts you've touched with your life's story. And may that Grace strengthen your Spirit and Body for the journey ahead. You remain in our hearts, thoughts, and prayers.
Cathy Patrick and Ryan
Aaron ... I recall when your mother was carrying you & how proud she was and still is of you -- how time passes. I also recall all the outdoor adventures the Loy family experienced - which you will continue the tradition and enjoy -- no doubt about it!.
Other than when you were young, we haven't crossed paths -- but know you, as well as family, are in our thoughts and more importantly prayers. The strong will and support of your family and friends, as well as your determination, will get you through all of this. Whatever the future holds for you ... you will exceed and surpass!
Warmly,
Mariann Collins and Family
Mariann Collins
My brother was a quadruple amputee (both hands and both feet) due to sepsis. Jimmy learned to walk on his "new legs" and went on living his life like you will. I am sorry this happened to you.
Cindy
I wish I had more to give as I am penny pinching myself with bills, a blown knee, holidays, and living here in SB. One thing I do have is a boat. You got a free ride to the Channel islands for some fishing/diving/camping whenever you are ready dude. I'll bring the beer! Hit me up on Facebook if you like. Wishing you quick triumphs!
Francis Coleman
We have never met nor most likely will we. As a lax player, Aaron, you and your parents know that lax players and families are all one. I live on Hollywood Beach in Oxnard, am the mother of a nationally ranked lax left-handed goalie who played for Trinity College 1996-2000 in Connecticut in addition to traveling as a college player to Carlsbad, Whittier and other So.Cal locations, when lax was an upcoming sport here to assist in lax clinics. My heart reaches out to you - to honor you for your courage and determination; you have it within you..you are a lax team member! Dig hard, dig deep..you can do it!! Keep us all posted, maybe in a blog, for you to score big time as an example for many, young and old alike. I am thrilled to be included in "Aaron's Army" for this challenge.
Lynn Jerry
Aaron,
On behalf of the SD County lacrosse officials we want to wish you the best. We all remember your gutty play, keep up your "gutty" attitude on your road to recovery, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Your buds w/ the flags.
Chuck Perrecone
Hello Aaron,
We have never met but i was informed about your situation from Bob Ramsey, whose son is friends with you. He let me now that while you have experienced this setback, you have a whole lot of people behind you and your recovery. I felt and after seeing your story on the news, that i needed to reach out to you and wish you a well and successful recovery.
John Short- Ridout Plastics-San Diego
Hi Aaron and the Loy family
We have never met. We are the parents of your suite mate Daniel. Just want you to know that you are in our thoughts. Keep your spirits high and you are going to beat this thing.
Jackie and Frank Lim
Wishing you great faith and praying for your health and healing with love and support from a UCSB alum, auntee of a freshman at LCC, and mom of two.
Rouse family & Tracy Romero
Dear Aaron,
I am Jack McKeon's grandfather and am so sad to learn of your experience. But given your past achievements, I know you will overcome the tough road ahead.
Dick and Janet Cooke
I am Keri Jucha's grandma. I wish you a speedy recovery. I've heard a lot of wonderful things about you so I'm sure you will come through this with flying colors.
Barbara Mandelstein
Hang in there Aaron and the Loy family. We are sending love and good thoughts to you all.
Doug Cooper, Ross Cooper and Lorraine Iverson.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Aaron. We send our hopes for a peaceful recovery to you and your family.
The Silversteins
I work with Gauchos who participate in the UCDC We haven't met Aaron, but my heart has been touched by your story. I work for the UCDC Program in Washington D.C. and love my Gauchos... so by extension that means I love you too! I am so sorry that this happened to you but I know you will overcome this to then go on and continue to do wonderful things. I wish you and your family the best and look forward to reading about what you will accomplish in life... who knows, perhaps I will have the opportunity to meet you if you ever decide to participate in UCDC.
Veronica Cummings
Stay strong my fellow gaucho! I am praying for you and your family during this difficult time. You sound like such a wonderful person and I am so sorry this happened to you. I graduated UCSB in 2010 and heard about your story from my mom earlier today. I know your road to recovery will be difficult and long, but don't give up. Try and keep your spirits up and know that their is so much love and support for you in this world. You are an inspiration.
-Lauren Bale, UCSB Alum 2010
My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. May you have a speedy recovery.
UCSB alum
Dear Aaron, we are all pulling for you and praying for your successful and speedy recovery. Please know you are in our daily thoughts.
Torrey Pines Boys lacrosse team
Aaron your incredible spirit and broad smile have made such an impact on the community. It is our hope that you feel the ripple effect of love and support from others; it exists because it is what you inspire...what an incredible testimony to the young man that you are. Although your journey won't be an easy one, we have no doubt that you will lead it courageously, please know that we stand with you along the way. The entire Loy family is in our hearts, thoughts and prayers.
The Waldal Family- Jimmy, Elin, Max, Kodiak and Chandler
I consider myself truly lucky to have been able to coach this young man. One with great character and attitude day in and day out. A personality beyond imaginable! Not only does he impact his friends (myself included) and family, but anyone he comes in contact with! My thoughts and prayers are with the Loy family. Stay strong and God Bless!
Nick Anderson
Loy family, my thoughts and prayers are with you all. You all are strong, so I know Aaron is, too. Kirsten, call me! I will do whatever I can to help.
Megan MacKellar (Smith)
Donation made today from Jake Kennedy and family. Thinking of the entire Loy Family and wishing you all patience, love and healing as you move forward.
Kiran Kennedy
Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
The Moscatelli family
Kathleen Ahern
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your journey. Speedy recovery! The Strich Family
Marla Strich
Aaron you are in my thoughts and prayers!
Carlos Fletes
Aaron- you are a Champion! We love you and you are constantly in our prayers.
The Vreeburg s, John , Gina , Paige and Nicholas
The Vreeburg
One day at a time...if that's too much, one hour at a time. A donation has been made in honor of your mother, my daughter, Keri Edelmuth Green's 6th grade teacher.
Keep up the fight, Aaron!
Jayne Edelmuth Marx
We love you Aaron, and wish you a speedy recovery! All the best to you and your family.
Your friends at 2nd South
We love you Aaron, and your beautiful family!. We are here for you, praying and sending beautiful energy your way!
C Rod, Shanell, Johnny, Brenda and Elvis XO
Aaron, as a mom who lost her son to meningococcal disease, I wish you the best in recovery. It may not seem like it now, but you are lucky to have survived. As President of the National Meningitis Association, www.nmaus.org, I know many families whose children weren't so lucky. Our best to you and your family.
Lynn Bozof
Aaron,
We continue to root for your speedy recovery. Our thought are with you and your family. Keep fighting!
Alex, Vicki, Jeffrey, and Emily Kuperman
Alex and VIcki
We do not know you personally but as we were an LCC family, we are with you in prayer and well wishes.
The Salant Family
Aaron, we have not met but I was told a lot about you by Gordon and Cole Tudor. I look forward to meeting you someday and wanted to let you know that my family and I are praying for your swift recovery. All the best, Worth+Laurie+Shae Archambault (former LCC Boy's Water Polo Coach)
Worth Archambault
Our thoughts and prayers are with you Aaron!!
The Grande's
Aaron, our thoughts and prayers are with you! Brian, Dani, Randy and Naomi May
Naomi May
Our thoughts are with your family,
The Levine Family from Flora Vista....(Andrew et al.)
The Levines
We are not acquainted but we have watched you play lacrosse at LCCHS. You played with a lot of heart, A true warrior. Healing prayers to you and your family.
The Small family
Thinking of you, Aaron!
The Cohen's
I am Carter's grandmother and I send my love and prayers to you and your family;
I will send a donation to helpHOPElive.
Sincerely, Gini Keeling
Gini keeling
We Snowdens are fighting with you every minute of every day! Keep up that amazing spirit...we got your back.
FIGHT ON AARON LOY!!!
Nancy, Harold, Shannon, Lyle and Scottyyyy!!
Hold on to that fighting spirit Aaron and have FAITH! We are praying every day!!
Brian, Carol and Kevin Lyle
Aaron, we remember you as a sweet boy and a great baseball player... so nice to see that you've grown into a smart and handsome young man! With the support of your loving family and wonderful community, you will recover and continue to grow and accomplish much more in your life. We are praying for you and send you all our love.
The Shirreffs Family (Bill, Carole, Nicholas & Scott)
You don't know me Aaron but I am a friend of Rachel's mom....your tragic illness and your fight to live has touched me deeply. You are a very special young man and obviously have much to do here on earth. I am wishing you a speedy recovery....
Gay Rowan
Never forget that your "fan base"of literally thousands is right behind you, Aaron!
Go #4
Jenny, Shelby & McKenna Taylor
My son told me about you. We both cried. Aaron, so many people are praying for you...people you don't even know. God Bless You.
Margaret Johnson
As parents, and of a UCSB student, our thoughts and prayers are with Aaron and his family. We know firsthand about the cost uncovered medical care and hope you are able to raise enough money to defray those expenses so you can concentrate on being with Aaron during his recovery.
Nancy and Gil Berman
My thoughts and love are with you.
Mary Lou Schultz
So much love and prayers for you and your family. Stay strong <3
The McCulley Family
Sending you love and strength!
Much Love...
The Murphy Family
Blessings to you and your family.
Deborah Savage
Stay strong Aaron, we are praying for you!
The Zirpolo Family
Valerie Zirpolo
We love you and pray for you daily. Fight on! You will go on to accomplish amazing things - of this we are sure. And Your friends, family, and community will be with you each step of the way.
Go Team Aaron!
Kirsten, Bob, Drew, and Jack Ramsey
I'm praying for all of you. You have such incredible hearts and will survive this. I know it's tough and I'm sorry your faith has been put to the test, but God is good. If you keep your faith strong, He will always pull through. Just you wait. He works on his own timing so be patient. I know that can't be easy, but just put all your faith in Him and He will show you how powerful He is. You are such wonderful people. Aaron, I can tell how loved you are and how many people are rooting for you. To the parents, your son is so great. He will get through this and so will you. Hang in there. It will all be over soon. Keep on fighting.
Aaron, May God bless and heal you quickly inside and out. Fight on Aaron, we all have your back and offer you strength and prayers to make it to the other side of this.
Ann, Scott & Jack and Dan Losey
Aaron, you are always in our thoughts and prayers as you recover from this difficult illness. We love you dearly!
Sharon and Doug Miller, and Bette Miller
Aaron you are in our daily thoughts...sending you all our positive energy for your recovery
Renna Family
Rooting for you to get well soon Aaron!!!
Anon
Love you Aaron. God speed with your recovery
Dad
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