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August 1, 2024

Wish Recipient: Jane Koza

Age: 65

Wish Recipient Location: Linden, NJ

Wish: Return to Cape May

Wish Location: Bronx, NY

Anticipated Completion: August 2024

“It’s inconceivable what I’ve been through,” shared Jane, 65, of Linden, NJ when reflecting on what an opportunity to return to Cape May – a place perfect for reclaiming peace – would represent to her.

Jane is an older adult living with permanent physical disabilities as a bilateral amputee and paraplegic. From the time she had her legs removed, her life has continued to be filled with medical scares, near-death experiences, and her propensity for sepsis adds a level of complication and risk to any circumstance when her health is at odds.

Jane has stood on the brink of losing her life one too many times but has dug her heels in to never let it get the best of her. In addition to the physical adversity that Jane has overcome, she’s also experienced the worst of the elder care system in the United States. As an older adult with disabilities, Jane is no stranger to the reality of knowing that even with a power chair, she needs help for transfers and knows the shortcomings of the New Jersey transit system. She is grateful to finally be living independently in an apartment that she adores and she’s fought hard in recovery and therapies to retain the level of independence she has, and she wears it proudly. Woven through these milestones of hardship are also moments of triumph and remarkable generosity.

With creativity and strategy, Jane helped acquire a new Bingo machine for the nursing home where she resided at the time. After several years had passed and she had left the home, she raised $5,000 in conjunction with another company to get a new one, again! Her relentless determination allowed her to provide such a meaningful gift to these deserving residents, not once – but twice. To this day, despite her experiences there, she will make a point to go visit some of the residents and staff there. This is a testament to her kindness and intentionality, even in the aftermath of hardship.

While Jane has resolved to not let her circumstances define her, shown through every therapy appointment and every victory of independence, she is eager for rest. Due to her health circumstances, an overnight or long weekend trip is no longer a simple decision to make. It involves securing accessible transportation and medical equipment – a time and resource intensive process. For that reason, any trips she takes are usually just for the day and to places quickly accessible. There’s one place that particularly charmed Jane in 1988 with its idyllic streets, beautiful Victorian homes, and enchanting boardwalks – Cape May, New Jersey. She would love nothing more than to return.

For this go-getter, tough-cookie, and non-nonsense kind of gal, Wish of a Lifetime is thrilled to be providing a wish experience of much deserved comfort and peace. In [date TBD], Jane and her dear friend Peggy, whom she’s known for around 30 years will enjoy a scenic drive down to Cape May as the sound of each wave crashing against the shore informs Jane of her wish come true.

June 21, 2024

Thank you to Andy Williams for this coverage of my journey to get here. https://www.nj.gov/ooie/news/2024/06202024a.shtml

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