Help Hope Live for Mclaren Slifer
Mclaren dove into a wave… something we’ve all done at one time or another at the beach.
On July 4, in South Bethany with friends, Mac dove into a wave. He has no recollection of hitting anything, no scraps or bruises but he knew instantly, something was wrong. He held his breath as his friends realized he was injured and helped him from the water.
Thankfully, there was an EMT on the beach that day and he and the lifeguards immediately began caring for Mac. 911 was called and his friend Colby’s mom, Shari, was by his side when paramedics arrived and started to make a plan. Shari was also on the phone with me, telling me what was happening. Mac was airlifted to Christiana Hospital where Tim and I met him and learned more about his injury.
Mac broke his C5-C6 vertebrae and currently has no feeling below his chest with some normal and some not so normal feeling in his arms and hands. Our whole world changed in an instant.
Mac had surgery to support his spinal column, and make room for his spinal cord to receive the vital blood supply it needs to heal, within 8hrs of his accident.
Our time at Christiana was long and scary. His care team was a huge advocate of getting him into Bryn Mawr rehab as swiftly and as safely as possible. We did this in just 11 days!
Unfortunately, within a day of arriving at Bryn Mawr Mac’s breathing took a turn. This is a risk as an asthmatic and due to the nature of his injury. We were quickly sent to Paoli Hospital were we spent a week treating and recovering from pneumonia.
On July 22, (Jaiden’s birthday) we celebrated back at Bryn Mawr rehab! We will be here for a while healing and working hard in therapy as Mac recovers. We have up days and down days, but Mclaren is getting stronger every day.
As a family, with the help from his care team at Bryn Mawr, we are making a plan for when Mac is able to return home. Mac will need tools and our home will need modifications to help him be as successful as possible in regaining his independence as he continues to heal. Any help you can offer is appreciated. Always accepting all the love and light you can share.
This journey, we know, will be long. But this #teamSlifer is ready for the fight! Mac IS a #StrongMF. Tim, Jaiden, Caelie and I are beyond thankful for all the well wishes and support and we have already received from friends and family. Mac is also SUPER thankful to all who have offered their support already… and kept him well fed at rehab ;). We have #StrongMF support bracelets to share. If you are local they are in a basket at the top of our driveway. If not, post your mailing address to [email protected] and I will send them along to you.
Mac has just completed his freshman year at Pitt and was looking forward to living off campus with friends for his sophomore year. While he’s taken a leave for this semester, he intends to get back to Pitt soon #H2P.
Expect not one Miracle, but many. #BentButNotBroken
Much Love,
-Team Slifer
*Family and friends of Mclaren Slifer are raising money with the nonprofit Help Hope Live to fund uninsured medical expenses associated with Mac’s accident on July 4, 2025. Mclaren has chosen to fundraise with Help Hope Live in part because donations are tax deductible for contributors and will only be used to cover medical and related expenses.
Updates (16)
April 15, 2026
Post surgery update : 6 days post op & All is well!It was a long day at Methodist Hospital (everyone was so nice and helpful) 12:30 check in, Mac left for surgery around 3:30, surgeon came to tell us all was well around 7:30, we left at 9:30, & home at 10:20p. Long Day.Mac and I amazed ourselves by getting up early (EARLY is NOT Mac’s jam…lol) and getting in the shower and taking care of business for the day. We were ready to hit the road by 10:30a… trust me! this is a miracle in and of itself.Mac was definitely nervous and those last couple hours before the surgery were mentally more nerve racking than the short 3 weeks we had to wrap our heads around the fact that it was going to happen so soon. He couldn’t wait for the anesthesia to just get out of his brain.Tim and I waited in the surgical waiting room with the 1.5-2hr surgical timeframe as a guide. I know I started to become a bit antsy once 5:30p came and went and I also realized I/We didn’t plan very well on the snack situation and, of course, at that point I didn’t want to leave because we would be able to go back to him any minute, right?!We received the text that Mac was in recovery around 6:10p and the surgeon came down to tell us how it all went around 7:10p. He had just come from seeing Mac and delivered the message from Mac to me “Tell my mom that i’m OK” phew… deep breath. The surgeon told us that all went really smoothly. Surgery was about an hour fifteen minutes … the surgeons worked simultaneously, one on each arm, they stimulated the tricep muscles (there are three) to determine the best muscle to attach the deltoid nerve. There was some flickers of activity in the upper tricep heads (which is what our therapists have been working with Mclaren so hard to get stronger), they left them alone and choose the medial tricep, which is the lower tricep muscle. Surgeon told Mac he had BIG Nerves! lol. And He told us Mac's medial tricep was huge. So, here's to hoping all those years of lifting, a splash of muscle memory, and HUGE helping hand from science will help Mac rebuild his triceps. We should start seeing results in 6months or so… 6-18months is the going growth rate for nerves with spinal cord injury. Everything just goes a little slower.Recovery at home has gone pretty smoothly. There has been very little pain at the surgical site (two 8 inch incisions from his shoulder to his elbow-ish- We haven’t seen them yet as the waterproof bandages are still on there), just some ‘weird’ feelings when he moves his arms. The immediate recovery includes him NOT moving his arms too much. Imagine keeping your elbows glued to your sides. We had to go backwards a little - back to feeding him, brushing his teeth that kind of thing for the first couple days while he hung out in bed. By Sunday, we got him out of bed and showered and from then have started to figure out the best ways to get things done more independently. He’s pretty much back to it with just some extra assistance in the set ups (like brushing is teeth- he can’t reach for the faucet & toothpaste, just yet). My feeling is next week will be a bit more of a challenge with the incisions getting that itchy healing feeling and he’ll be wanting to get his arms moving more to get things done. We’ve had great success with the ’sliced up the back’ crew neck T-shirts for getting dressed for the day (THANK YOU HOEY’S)We go back 4/22 for our follow up and to see what’s next. We are curious to know when we can get back to some therapy. We know, in terms of OT, that we will be somewhat limited for 4-8 weeks but I’m very hopeful to get back into PT to, at least, do the FES bike to keep his leg spasms in check. His legs are already cranky without that workout. United Healthcare has denied us twice now for a home unit… we are going back in for a third appeal. Would have been very nice to have that here for him while he recovers. But that’s another soapbox.Hope all of you are well and we are infinitely grateful you’re on our teamXOXO, TeamSlifer (Melissa)#ExpectNotOneMiracleButMany#BentNotBroken#StrongMF#SmallGoalsAccumulate#SpinalCordInjuryAwareness
April 9, 2026
TODAY IS THE DAY TEAM!Please send all the love and light for a successful nerve transfer surgery and smooth recovery!Next up... building triceps Thank you for joining our Team and always keeping us lifted with your light and love… keep it coming!XOXOXTeam Slifer (Melissa)#ExpectNotOneMiracleButMany#BentNotBroken#StrongMF#SpinalCordInjuryAwareness
April 7, 2026
It’s been a whirlwind of a couple of weeks.We finally had our long awaited appointment with Philadelphia Hand & Shoulder Limb Restoration Clinic. They hold these clinics only the third Thursday of each month. Our Physiatrist recommended us to this clinic in January. It was an overwhelming, information-filled appointment with many Drs. in the room and the primary surgeons planning out multiple solutions to help Mac with his current capabilities and strengths. They landed on a Posterior Deltoid to Tricep Transfer of Nerve. The goal was to try to squeeze him in in May, as nerve transfer is a very time sensitive. Best served prior to the 1yr post injury marker. So it was a BIG surprise to us that they had a cancellation and April 9, this Thursday, is the day! Just three weeks to process all that information and get our ducks in a row Mac is nervous, understandably. We are all dreading the recovery. His arms will be very limited for at least two weeks. It also kind of feels like all the work and progress and gains he’s worked for these last couple months will take a step backward but bigger picture this procedure has a pretty high rate of success and in 6 to 18 months we are hoping he’s get some of his triceps back. And that will offer so much more opportunity for independence. Restoring some hand function was also discussed but he needed to get a bit stronger and it’s a procedure that can be done later. PHEW! right?!?!Well, we also finally caught up with our spinal surgeon 6m follow up at 8mo… eye roll… just a multitude of testing and scheduling delays. The surgeon through us a curve ball at that appointment with a new procedure he’s planning to bring to his practice that he thinks Mac will be a candidate for. After that MINDBLOWN appt and some Cane’s Chicken (which is right by the surgeon’s offices.. SCORE!) , we processed. And researched. I also had a great conversation with Mac's Physiatrist about it and my gut feeling held true.While we are so grateful all the Drs are keeping us in mind and coming up with potential solutions … keep ‘em coming… we all agree as a Team that we are looking for more biological restoration… reconnection of his body to his brain. NVG-291 is still a trial we are watching closely and we may try the external ARC EX. All TBD.While we may have been quiet with our updates for a couple months- rest assured Mclaren has been working HARD. He’s been at therapy 3 days a week PT and OT. OT working on daily living independence, core and arm strength (which has put him in the best position for this nerve transfer), and sitting balance. PT is working hard on getting him standing (weight baring is SO important to keeping his bones strong and muscles engaged). It’s been a battle with his blood pressure but he’d seemed to hit his stride last week, of course, when we’ll now be taking some time off to recover. We have plans to get back to is as soon as we can.At 9months after his spinal cord injury, We are absolutely not where we’d hoped we'd be. That said, we will never give up hope for more recovery. One of the most important lessons through all this…. is that walking again after a SCI is of so little importance. I would beg, borrow or steal to get any number other body systems back on line that would give him so much more dignity, confidence and independence. other notes of importance : Jaiden is HOME. His Germany experience was amazing. He’s already planning to go back! Jaiden was so impressed with how much stronger Mclaren has gotten while he was away and is dreading the return of Mac’s triceps (seems Mac’s ’nut shot’ is spot on and with a bit of strength behind it… well.. LOL ) Jaiden has already started working and will Graduate MAY 1 from University of Pittsburgh School of Computer Sciences.Caelie is preparing for Graduation too! June 5. Prom is May1. She HAS commited to the University of Pittsburgh Undecided but leaning toward Environmental Sciences. She will also be having surgery on her knee May12. A fateful romp in the snow and a dislocation right before Mamma Mia! She powered through those amazing performances with her fellow castmates and now we’ll get her fixed up before she heads off to the hills of Pittsburgh.We are starting to think on plans for the next round of accessibility renovations to the house, more ramps, easier doors, and outside access.Team Slifer is: gratefulhumbledtiredhopefulThank you for joining our Team and always keeping us lifted with your light and love… keep it coming!XOXOX, Team Slifer (Melissa)#ExpectNotOneMiracleButMany#BentNotBroken#StrongMF#SpinalCordInjuryAwarenessWE HAVE TEAM SLIFER STICKERS, if you are interested! Love mine on my car, laptop, and waterbottle. Would be amazing to see some others out in the wild!
March 24, 2026
my apologies for the long delay in updating... i just didn't know what to write.It took me until just recently to put a word to it.... grieving.Plain and simple. I (we've) been grieving.We are not where we'd hoped we'd be. We are here for all of it. We are Mac's support team... for all of it. We are doing our best to stay positive. Find the small joys. (Milo and Daphne are a big part of the daily smiles). And Us. Team Slifer. There is power in us.... and all of you who have generously and lovingly joined our team.your thoughts and love and light lift us MORE than you could ever know. I'll have more soon... we are digging into some of the science available at this time... and always praying for a cure.xoxo, Team Slifer#strongMF#BentNotBroken#ExpectNotOneMiracleButMany#SpinalCordInjurySurvivor#JaidensHome#CaelieHasntDecidedOnACollegeYET
December 7, 2025
Hello all, I’m long overdue for an update. But spinal cord injury continues to throw everything it has at, not only Mac, but our whole family and support team. We are now 5 months since Mclaren’s accident. He’s been home for just over 2 months and just last night we finally got him a REAL shower. It went far better than we anticipated… lol. We are working with a borrowed shower chair until his official one clears insurance.. picture a PVC adaptive beach cruiser with smaller wheels. It’s pretty hoopty but it got the job done. lol.He’s slept in his new room upstairs the last two nights and the dining room is being converted back to just that a dining room (or place to put all the crap)… and Tim’s home office. Next steps will be to personalize his new room and get him his PC step up and get that boy gaming and connecting with his friends while they are at school.The last two months at home have been hard… hence, my silence. It’s hard living through the hard parts and harder still to put that to paper to share. Now that we are back to outpatient and Mac is really working hard and making great strides to meet his goals; things feel a bit more optimistic.. or maybe purposeful is a better word. He’s had quite enough of Mom’s attempt a home workouts… lol.We are so humbled and grateful that #1 Mac was brave enough have a house full for Thanksgiving and #2 our family rerouted all the plans, cooked, packed and moved the holiday to our house so we could participate. #3 Jaiden could video in from Germany and ‘be’ here.These are things subconsciously in the back of our minds but then we’re confronted with the very real fact that Mac can’t go/get in to/ or move about in many of the homes/places he’s spent time in before the accident. His power chair gives him back mobility and some independence but it can not go everywhere… so neither can he/we.Another highlight of the last month is our visit with a new Physiatrist (PM&R -Physical Medicine & Rehabilitation). AND WE LOVED HIM! Mac, Tim & I were all able to go to the appt and all three gave an enthusiastic “thumbs up”. Which is a huge relief. This will be his main Dr. Monitoring all the things that we will need to do to support Mac’s recovery and therapies. We are still at Bryn Mawr Rehab for his outpatient PT and OT. But may consider the Magee Day Program for future therapies. Our goal is, and will always be, to keep Mac healthy and strong for when science finds the cure for spinal cord injury.We are watching the NVG-291 trials (we actually applied and were ready to move to Chicago for 20 weeks (i have NO IDEA how that would have worked) but if there was a chance we were taking it! But sadly, we missed the cut off by ONE DAY… it just leaves me to believe there is something better out there for him than a 50/50 chance of getting the treatment. Dancing molecules is another study we are following but they are further out from starting human trials, and of course, stem cells… please God, stem cells!We raised roughly 8k for GIVINGTUESDAY and are so very appreciative! These funds are helping us continue to renovate our home to be accessible almost everywhere for Mac, buy all the bits and pieces for Mac’s care that Medicaid will eventually cover (it’s been months since we’ve heard from them- they’re reply wass “it takes a while”), and finding all these interesting and clever tools to make Mac’s world a little easier and independent.Mac’s friends have designed and are selling Mac Merch.. or STRONGMF MERCH… proceeds will go to Mac’s continued care and what better way of joining the team than buying the merch! https://team-slifer.printify.me/WE GOT OURS!! #TEAMSLIFEROur Mclaren, of course, has some connection to the McLaren Formula One race car. So the design implements the McLaren font, Exclusive McLaren color -Papaya Orange, and #81- Formula One’s McLaren driver Oscar Piastri. The additional story behind the #81 is that while we were in the Trauma ICU at Christiana we noted his bed was numbered #81. We took that as a positive sign. 🧡As always, we continue to be grateful for everyone’s thoughts and support… send all the light & love! And if you see me out in the wild, i’m accepting ALLL the hugs! There is power in our connection.XXOO XOXOXOTeam Slifer (Melissa)#ExpectNotOneMiracleButMany#BentNotBroken#StrongMF#SpinalCordInjurySurviver#SpinalCordInjuryRecovery#WeCanDoHardThings
November 2, 2025
Happy Sunday to all! Here we are almost 4 months since Mclaren’s accident. We’ve learned a lot, have a lot to learn, and are still -somewhat patiently- waiting on healing and recovery.We have some updates to share :- the elevator is physically in the house but it’s not functional just yet.- Mclaren’s new accessible bathroom is ready to be tiled. We continue to come up with creative and weird inventions to try to keep Mac moving while he’s home and waiting to get back into rehab. (Fred's awesome dual sided rickshaw and Tim is working on a table extension for an arm bike).- We’ve met an awesome family who is already on this journey with their son and they have been so open and welcoming and a vast wealth of information that has just been invaluable. We are taking action on some of their info immediately!
And we are able to do that because of your outrageously generous support! We bought a van!! A 2016 Dodge something mobility van… it’s white. This gets us mobile and opens up so much that it keeps us stuck at home. Mac just ventured outside to see if he and his chair fit in it and it's just barely ?!? A bit of a head duck and a 87million point turn to get him sorted but we will be moving! Which is good because we have a busy week ahead! We have two trips into Philly for appts with Drs we never wanted to have to deal with and others that will hopefully help us get stronger. More news on that later. We have a couple evaluations for PT/OT scheduled to get us rolling into outpatient. Mac’s life of leisure is just about over and it's time to get back to work! Getting him standing up and weight baring is my top priority.
As always.. and every day.. We have hope, faith, uncertainty, determination, a little bit of despair creeps in but we continue to rise, we love on and fight on, this is not over. Just this week Mac has some new sensation on his left side. These feelings are very subtle but they are something new and they will carry us pretty darn far! We are bucket fillers and this goes 'in the bucket'! Please continue to send all the love and light you can muster! We are taking it all in and it is keeping us floating in the harder moments. There have been several fundraisers to benefit Mac and we can’t thank you all enough for thinking of us and putting in the time to make those efforts happen. Every little bit helps.East Goshen Elementary will have one more dine and donate Saturday, Nov 15 at Chipotle in Turner Sq… one of Mac’s fav’s! So we are looking forward to seeing everyone there. Mac’s custom electric wheelchair was approved by insurance and is in production.. he can’t wait to get a more comfortable chair! His shower chair was not approved but we’re still fighting for it. The RT300 Stim bike has also been submitted to insurance… fingers crossed it gets covered in some capacity. Everything about it is so good for his body, muscles, heart and lungs! The T-shirts are getting much closer.. design is good to go… we (ok, I) just want to add a couple different styles so there is something for everyone. Our team is GROWING! #TEAMSLIFER ;#strongmf Wristbands have traveled to PA, NJ, TX, DE, SC, NC, WI, MD, FL, NH, WA, CA, VA, ME, MN, MA and; Germany! They are on their way to Canada and England too! Let's Keep the POSITIVE HEALING VIBES Flowing! Spread the Word! Join the Team! You Are Amazing!
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XOXO Team Slifer (Melissa)
October 22, 2025
Now, having had a minute to process our follow up appt with Mac's neurosurgeon. This is what stuck.We met with his nurse practitioner Alice... she has a lovely jamaican accent that made everything sound a little bit magical.She started her exam with "Now that I'm seeing you... You should be having a name change... to 'Miracle'".#ExpectNotOneMiracleButMany#SmallGoalsAccumulate#BentNotBroken#StrongMF#TeamSliferXOXOXOTeam Slifer (Melissa)
October 14, 2025
Here we are just over 100 days since Mac’s injury.We have a hole in the roof, an elevator shaft framed, a new bathroom underway, two new ramps with more on the way. Neil, Leo, TC, and Fred have been working tirelessly to make all this happen. It’s been a godsend to have knowledgeable and skilled people willing to jump right in to get all this done in record time.Mac has been home for just under a month and we cannot wait to get back to therapy at Bryn Mawr Rehab. The home therapy is really just lack luster and Mac is less than enthusiastic to do it… but he does. Every little bit helps.We had our first venture out on the Chesco Connect bus for a Drs appt. It did go smoother than I anticipated but Mac did not enjoy the bumpy ride. Mac is still in his loaner wheelchair and the fit is just not as comfortable as the chair he was using at BMR, so his own chair cannot come soon enough.We have a whole bunch of appts this week so thankfully, we were able to rent a wheelchair van to get them done. It is certainly more convenient to not have to schedule appts on specific days to accommodate Chesco Connects limitations. So the purchase of a van has swiftly risen to the top of the priority list … along with everything else.We had our follow up with our neurosurgeon which was very positive and Mac has been released from the neck brace today. Hopefully this will help relieve his continued constant neck pain as we can begin to stretch and strengthen those muscles again. We also have our spinal cord clinic appt at BMR tomorrow and are very curious what that’s all about. Our outpatient appts for PT and OT are scheduled but like everything else there is a wait… so we are waiting. Everything about this has been a lesson in patience. We know it’s a long road to recovery but if it could speed it up just a little… we’d appreciate it. Mac has some new sensations below injury level which is a huge positive, but we’d really like to see some new movements too.We reached out to a clinical trail, that is very promising but missed the cut off dates by just a couple days which was very disappointing. But I truly believe that something better, more promising, is in store than a 50/50 chance in a trail… fingers crossed!We can’t thank everyone enough for all your support, light and love, and fundraisers.. we can feel the air vibrating with it. And we couldn’t be doing all of this without your help. This Is Hard. No ifs ands or buts about that.For those we’ve seen out in the wild -thank you for the hugs! No hug is too long :)A new order of wristbands came in so i’ll be getting back to my Thank You’s! and there are always some in the basket by the driveway. Our team just keeps growing!#ExpectNotOneMiracleButMany#SmallGoalsAccumulate#BentNotBroken#StrongMF#TeamSliferXOXOXO, Team Slifer (Melissa)
September 28, 2025
Happy Sunday to you all! Go Birds!With all our heart and soul we are so happy Mac is home. We have fumbled through this first week like parents bringing home a newborn. We are tired, disheveled, and so grateful he is here.I had hoped home would bring more peaceful, restful sleep and healing but it seems it's just the same but with us bumbling through it. I also hoped Home would bring Mac a safe place to just fall apart a bit. He's been holding himself with so much grace. He has, we all have... but i fear we have a long way to go.We are navigating home health care, which frankly, is geared more toward an elderly patient than a 19 yr old that needs to get stronger. With your donations, I've purchased some active hands grippers to help him hold light weights and exercise bands and we are waiting on a FitMi Home therapy system. We are going to do our best to keep him moving forward until we can get cleared for outpatient therapy.We are finding transportation to be our biggest hurdle at the moment, so we are keeping our eyes open for used van. We have many Dr appts coming up and the local shared busing seems it's just not incredibly reliable... or timely.Renovations are moving right along and hopefully just a month or so more of camping out in the dining room.Mac's first grade teacher hosted a fundraiser at Panera Bread in Exton this week and it sounds like the place was hoppin'! Thanks to all who came out. I'll keep you posted on the next one.Thank you's are no their way with wristbands, but if you're local there are always some on the driveway. I'll also keep you posted on the T's the boys designed to support Mac! They're looking Good!September is Spinal Cord Injury Awareness Month.XOXO, Team Slifer (Melissa)#teamSlifer#StrongMf#smallgoalsaccumulate#expectnotonemiraclebutmany#notmanypeoplemeettheirheroiraisedmine#bentnotbroken#spinalcordinjuryawareness
September 17, 2025
One Sleep Left... and he's home!He's worked so hard to get stronger and try to understand his body in this moment.He's fought hard against trauma and illness. 11 days in the trauma ICU, 12hrs in rehab, 3days in the ER, 4 more days in the ICU, and 57 days in rehab. HE CAN NOT WAIT TO GET HOME! Mac has proved himself stronger than he thought he could be and I am hopeful HOME will bring him more peaceful rest and healing so we can tackle, with everything in our being, the next steps in his recovery and reconnections his body is fighting to make.Peace Out BMR! We'll be back for outpatient ready to work!#ExpectNotOneMiracleButMany#SmallGoalsAccumulate#BentNotBroken#StrongMF#TeamSliferXOXO
September 11, 2025
Hello All! Again, we can't thank you enough for all the love and light surrounding Mac right now!We are at the 2 month mark from Mac's accident and Boy! have we come a long way. No more trach, and breathing so much easier. No more peg tube, and really enjoying his door dash deliveries He's getting much better with feeding himself with the right kind of 'stabby' foods (watermelon, chicken nuggets, and yes, we've tried some gummy bears too!)Mac has come such a long way and yet still so much further to go. Everyday he's working so hard in therapy despite still being in some pain. This week the therapists are trying to add in some fun... Mac tried Wii tennis, VR whack a mole and he even perch sat and did a little putt putt with some assistance from his therapists. All these things remain work but also inspire some laughs. And Laughter heals.We are counting down the days to discharge... 6 to be exact.The house is not ready but we hope to have the ramps in place, he'll have a loaner chair to borrow until his is built, and a spot set up for him in the dining room until the upstairs renovations are complete. We are struggling with the fact that we will not have any bathroom access for him until the upstairs is done which will be another 4-5 weeks but insurance is A-OK with that and feels that is a perfectly dignified way to live. And we will... we're just not happy about it. Mac, however, doesn't care... He just wants to come home. And I don't blame him one bit. Two months in a hospital is just too long.We are making some plans and doing our research on tools and activities we can have at home to keep Mac exercising all his parts to help him get stronger and be ready for when his nerves start to wake up and reconnect. This is where I insert another THANK YOU because of your generosity we going to set him up for success!Mac's friends are putting together a T to buy in Support of Mac and I will post it here when it's ready . We have lots more wristbands, if you haven't gotten yours yet. On our driveway, if your local or email me and I'll send some along : [email protected] Team Slifer (Melissa)#expectNotOneMiracleButMany#BentNotBroken#StrongMF#SmallGoalsAccumulate
September 8, 2025
We are two months out from Mclaren's accident and less then ten days out from Mac coming home. Boy! is he ready to come home! He doesn't even care where he will have to sleep or that he won't have access to a bathroom yet (Insurance thinks it's perfectly dignified to do all those things in bed... grrrr!) Tim has fought tooth and nail to get Mac more time inpatient so we could have things better prepared at home for him but it's looking like our time is up. While i'm desperate to have Mac home; i would rather he has access to all his daily therapies. Once home, we are on our own for a bit. We're not quite sure what the 'home help & PT/OT' looks like but I can't imagine it will be all the cool toys they have here at BMR.Mac would like it all to just be over... all of it.We continue to be hopeful and believe there will be a complete recovery... though the time it will take is discouraging at times.Mac is stronger every day and we can't thank you enough for all your support.XOXO, Team Slifer (Melissa)
August 30, 2025
Its been an eventful week. Mac got his peg tube (feeding tube) removed and is back to just his original holes now. PHEW! It as removed quickly and with a POP! sound right at BMR. Mac was a bit freaked out so chose to keep his eyes closed and had me plug his ears ..lol. He told the Doc that he kept his eyes shut and the Doc joked "Me Too!" Mac is getting stronger everyday and really putting in the hard work with a whole body he doesn't recognize.. and often it doesn't cooperate. I'm telling you the grace and resolution he is facing this with is awe inspiring.I just saw a shirt that says "Most people never meet their Hero, I raised mine" and Boy! does that just speak to me.Tim and I are quickly moving forward with the renovations to the house to make it suitable for Mac. Ramps are the top priority because insurance just seems to keep shortening Mac's inpatient time despite how much progress he's making with his therapies. We are likely to not have all the renovations complete when he does come home so we are also sorting a short term spot for him to stay... certainly not ideal.But the ramps come first because right now he couldn't even get in the house!Caelie has kicked off her senior HS year and Jaiden is getting packed for his last semester in Munich, Germany. So this weekend will be squeezing in as much family time as we can before Jaiden leaves on Tuesday. I'm going to be a mess... lol.Once again, we cannot thank you all enough for all the Love, Light and Support you're sending our way XOXO, Team Slifer (Melissa)#expectnotonemiraclebutmany#BentNotBroken#smallgoalsaccumulate
August 24, 2025
It's Sunday Morning and Mac's first and only appt for today (OT) doesn't start until 11. So, as I'm sitting here letting him sleep in a bit... i pulled out my thank you note cards to start saying 'Thank you' to everyone who has shown up to support Mac and our family in this moment. I am just humbled. I have no words. This is moment has been so hard for all of us. For Mac who is hurting physically from the injury and he's working so hard to build back what he can at this time in his healing. The grace he is displaying in what has to be so frustrating for a 19 yr old boy. As parents, who want to take away his pain and would honestly trade places with him without a thought. For his siblings, who still have very busy lives to live and feel bad for moving forward.All this to say, this has been hard. Mac has been amazing given the circumstances and continues to improve daily... but of course, not fast enough. Jaiden & Caelie have been present and supportive and I'm so proud of the people they are.It's been a lot to take this so public. Harder than I was expecting, as we thought a lot of people already knew... but WOW!As we take each day moment by moment and try to make a plan for Mac's continued healing and recovery... THANK YOU! Thank you for ALL the love and light, prayers, thoughts, mentions, shares, and support in anyway that works for you.I believe the air is just vibrating all around Mac from all your thoughts and this will bring healing to his body... one small success at a time.#BentNotBroken #ExpectNotOneMiracleButMany #TeamSlifer #StrongMF #SmallGoalsAccumuateXOXO, Team Slifer (Melissa)
August 12, 2025
We are so pleased with today! With his trach capped for a full 24hrs... That F'ing piece of plastic is out of his throat! And all the pain it brought went with it. Breathing and swallowing with peace.
August 9, 2025
We are hoping to use this space to post updates and milestones in Mac's healing journey here.
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April 17, 2026
Slifer strong!!
Elise Cooper
January 14, 2026
With love from the McIntosh family
Heather McIntosh
January 3, 2026
I’m holding Mclaren in my thoughts with hopes for strength, healing, and peace.”
Eric (Rick) Moskowitz
January 1, 2026
Sending positive thoughts- Cmilla and KOTH
Chris Miller
December 27, 2025
Sending immeasurable miracles!
LeeAnn Donato
December 27, 2025
We love you Mac!
Suzanne Zedar
December 13, 2025
Praying for you McLaren for a speedy recovery!
Anne Marie Coronel
December 12, 2025
Ed and I think of Mac often and are praying for all of you Love Kathy McCaffrey
kathleen mccaffrey
December 7, 2025
That was good to read an update. You are all still in our prayers and sending positive and good thoughts.
Susan shelton
December 4, 2025
Sending love and light!❤️
Lynne Feighan
December 3, 2025
We believe in you and here to support you always!! Seek the positive in each day -love - Diane ,Ed, Patrick , Rennie, Ashley, Lindsey #hope4hoey
Diane Hoey
December 3, 2025
Continuing prayers for the entire family. Stay strong!
VALERIE Weber
December 3, 2025
Every day team Slifer is in our thoughts and prayers. We love you. Sending Hope and strength to all of you.
Colleen Kirk
December 3, 2025
Our prayers continue as we send good vibes.
They believed they could, so they did! Never the less, they persisted!
#staystrong
#staypositive
Theresa & Joe Feola
December 2, 2025
I’m honored to support your journey, keep the faith as you have endless possibilities.
Francis Duffner
December 2, 2025
Wishing strength, healing, and brighter days ahead
Heather Carey
December 2, 2025
Go team!!
Carolyn Rayburn
December 2, 2025
We continue to pray for Mclaren's healing and strength for your family.
Anonymous
December 2, 2025
Stay strong! We are thinking of you!
The Terlizzi’s
Melissa Terlizzi
December 2, 2025
Keep up the hard work Mac!!!
Steve
Stephen Finnegan
December 2, 2025
Sending good vibes from the Pacific Northwest! xoxo
Wendy Henning
December 2, 2025
The Latyak’s are cheering you on Mac & family!
Amy Latyak
December 2, 2025
Mac, You are strong and courageous and we are so proud of the progress you are making on this healing journey. You are always in our thoughts-
The Maun Family
Shari Maun
December 2, 2025
Keep fighting and getting stronger!! We are all cheering you on!!
Patricia Dale
December 2, 2025
STAY STRONG ! Continued prayers for you and your family
Jodi Walsh
December 2, 2025
The entire Einstein family is thinking of you!
Nathaniel Einstein
December 1, 2025
Keep working hard!! We are sending thoughts and healing prayers!
Diane Hanlon
November 29, 2025
In our thoughts and prayers!!
Susan Shelton
November 16, 2025
Sending lots of love and hopes for quick healing
Eric Rufe
November 13, 2025
Sending strength, each and every day!
Robin Lickliter
November 11, 2025
Sending so much love to Mac and the Slifer family!
Lynn Van Lenten
November 7, 2025
Keep fighting Mac! Love, the Latyaks
Amy Latyak
October 30, 2025
Continuing to pray with you and for you..each day. May the blessings and miracles flow continuously and abundantly for Mac and your enitre family.
Sending our love,
Sarah Trueman and Family
Sarah Trueman
October 28, 2025
We can’t make it to Panera tonight but we are thinking of Mac and the family.
Jaime Whitcomb
October 24, 2025
Positive vibes and love from the Shahans.
Andy Shahan
October 23, 2025
That is a great sign. A miracle. I love it!!!
Susan shelton
October 3, 2025
Thinking of you and wishing you and Team Slifer continued strength and healing.
Lena & Devin Feighan
October 1, 2025
Glad to see you are home. Wishing you and Team Slifer all the best.
Pat Poprik
October 1, 2025
Welcome home Mac! Praying for your continued progress!
~The Horan Family
Lynn Horan
September 30, 2025
Keep kicking ass Mac!! I am truly in awe of your strength and determination!
Katie Hadzor
September 28, 2025
We wish Mac and Team Slifer all the best!
Kieran McLaughlin
September 27, 2025
McCaffreys are praying for Mac!
Mark & Valerie McCaffrey
September 24, 2025
Hope Mac's improvement continues. I am saying daily prayers for him and wish him all the best.
H. Annette Segnere
September 23, 2025
Never give up hope! We are praying for complete healing !
Love, Joe, Bridget, Caitlin, Riley & Ainsley
Bridget Carr
September 19, 2025
Sending lots of love to you and Mac and Team Slifer!
Angela Lavery
September 10, 2025
Keep fighting Mac!!
Love,
Lou & Ciara
Louie Vassallo
September 10, 2025
Keep Swimming!! You got this!
Thomas Masters
September 9, 2025
Our whole family is rooting for you, Mac!
Heather Einstein
September 7, 2025
Thinking of you, Mac and praying for your recovery!
Please reach out when you are up for visitors.
Kevin Keeler
September 6, 2025
Sending prayers and positive energy to Mac and your entire family.
The Mid-Atlantic Multisport Crew & Hauser Family
William Hauser Jr
September 6, 2025
Thinking and praying for you all.
Lizanne Hagedorn
September 4, 2025
We are all behind you cheering you on Mac!
Whitney Witczak
September 4, 2025
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Lots of hugs. Sue
Sue Roberts
September 4, 2025
We pray for Mac and family. Prayers for strength and healing! There’s a giant tribe in the community in your corner!!!
Joanne Driscoll
September 3, 2025
Thoughts and prayers to all in your family during this difficult time-
Suzanne Hornberger
September 3, 2025
Let’s go, Mclaren!!! Scott and Glenna Shire
Glenna Shire
September 2, 2025
Sending positive thoughts your way!!
Alex Smith
September 2, 2025
My prayers are with Mac, your family and the medical team. Huge hug!!
Love,
Karen
Karen Ericson
September 1, 2025
Hoping Mac continues to improve and good luck with house renovations.
Becky and Steve - friends of Fred and Cynthia
Rebecca Test
August 31, 2025
Every good and healing thought coming your way, Mac! You are such a strong and positive force of nature, so I know that you are giving it all you’ve got. And then you possess the most incredible family, who are surrounding you to add that much more “you’ve got this,” as you travel your road to recovery. There are minions out here lifting you up each and every day. Sending much love and big hugs to a very special and very determined young man.
Always,
Mrs. R
Linda Romeika
August 31, 2025
Wishing healing and strength every day!
Joni Sobocinski
August 31, 2025
Wish Mac an all the strength and courage in the days ahead.
Love Sara Skok’s grandmother
Linda Guarini
August 29, 2025
Sending lots of positive vibes!!
Angie Ganser
August 29, 2025
Sending hugs, healing and love!
Amy Watson
August 29, 2025
Wishing Mac strength in his recovery and sending love and support to the entire Slifer family.
With care,
Sara, Emma & Danielle
Danielle Guarini
August 28, 2025
The Kephart Family is praying for you and with you!
Christopher Kephart
August 28, 2025
Sending ALL the positive vibes for continued strength and healing. You got this!
Mary Kay, Gregg, & Will Margolis
August 28, 2025
Fred and Cynthia are dear friends of mine. Although we don’t know Mclaren personally, I feel I have gotten to know you all through Fred and Cynthia. You are a strong, kind and resilient family and I know that Mclaren will reap the benefits of your strength and his own strength. I pray for all as you take this journey with your son and please know that there are many people you don’t even know who are pulling for all of you.
Judy Giuliano
Judy Giuliano
August 28, 2025
Keep fighting Mac! We are pulling and praying for you.
Jim Zdancewicz
August 27, 2025
We are so sorry this happened to Mac. The Mastronardos have been thinking of Mac and praying for a full recovery. Stay strong, Team Slifer!
The Mastronardo Family
Melissa Mastronardo
August 26, 2025
Our prayers are with Mac and his whole Family.
Patricia Sandy
August 26, 2025
Sending strength and hope to Mac and his family.
Carole Truskett
August 25, 2025
Hoping for the very best
Marc Taylor
August 23, 2025
Sending love, prayers, strength and hope to Mac and the Slifer Family.
Love,
The Pariseault Family
c paris
August 23, 2025
Hang in there Mac we are all praying for your recovery.
Patricia Dale
August 23, 2025
May each day bring you strength and peace on this new journey.
Maureen Hugel
August 23, 2025
Much Love, Steve, Jaime, and Jackson
Steve Mazurek
August 23, 2025
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Stay strong Mac and TeamSlifer!
The Lyons Family
Linda Lyons
August 23, 2025
Sending lots of love and healing thoughts to the Slifer fam. You guys got this!
Tina Honer
August 23, 2025
Keeping everyone in our prayers!
Marla Whitcomb
August 23, 2025
Sending prayers and positivity. #TeamSlifer.
The Kim Family
Kara Kim
August 22, 2025
Sending all the positive vibes from the Evans family. You got this Team Slifer!
Anna Evans
August 21, 2025
My heart is sad for your family and I will pray for all of you during this difficult time.
Steve Muessen
August 21, 2025
Team Slifer-The Crazy Cat Ladies of Coatesville and cheering you all on with our cowbells and questionable fashion choices! We love you all!
Suzanne and Melanie (and Mouse, Sonny, and Josephine!)
SUZANNE MUENCH
August 20, 2025
Keeping your family in the light.
Kelly Weinberg
August 20, 2025
Praying for you guys!
Bill Davis
August 20, 2025
Thinking of the Slifer family.
Sharon Rossiter
August 20, 2025
We’re so sorry this has happened to Mac. You all are a wonderful family. We’re thinking of Mac and all of you every day.
Anne Stumpf
August 20, 2025
Not much. I hope it helps.
Joanna G-S
August 19, 2025
Sending you love and healing vibes
Heather Marley
August 19, 2025
My thoughts and prayers continue for all the Slifers.
Mary Wilcox
August 19, 2025
Sending you positive thoughts and prayers - keep being Slifer Strong!
Lou & Nicole Tranchitella (an WCWMS alum)
NICOLE TRANCHITELLA
August 19, 2025
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Tim
John Shave
August 19, 2025
Your west coast family is praying for you. We love you and are here for you however we can help. Keeping working hard. We know you can do this Mac.
Lou Pitonyak
August 19, 2025
Sending positive thoughts and healing vibes to the Slifer family!
Judy Fong
Judy Fong
August 19, 2025
Sending prayers and positive, healing vibes.
-Mrs. Ferry (former Spanish teacher) :)
Jessica Ferry
August 19, 2025
We are sending positive thoughts and prayers to Mac and your entire family. ❤️
Jocelyn Drucis and family
August 19, 2025
Prayers to you and your family for healing and comfort.
Laura McGrory
August 18, 2025
Sending prayers your way. You got this, Mac!
Melissa Rudolph
August 18, 2025
Keeping Mac and the whole family in my thoughts and sending love and light.
Erin Sola
August 18, 2025
Thinking of you, Mac! Prayers for a full recovery.
Laura Mazzagatti
August 18, 2025
Keep fighting Mac! You got this! - Colby and Cam's "Auntie Di" in Maine
Dianna Moran
August 18, 2025
We hope each you are getting stronger every day!
Roger and Debbie Smith
August 18, 2025
Positivity and strength sent your way!! Go Team Slifer - if there is anything I can help with - please let me know
Barb
barbara finnegan
August 18, 2025
In the darkest hour, there can still be light. We pray the light finds you swiftly and that peace be in your heart during your journey.
Amy Zumpano
August 18, 2025
We’re with you every step of the way. Much love, positive energy, strength, and support to you all. Xxxx
Lorraine Thomas
August 18, 2025
Keeping all of you in our daily prayers and sending much love at this hard time . ❤️
Colleen Casadei
August 18, 2025
Sending our love and prayers - Keep up the hard work Mac!!! Go Team Slifer!!!
Shannon, Terrence, TJ & Kendell
Shannon McCabe
August 18, 2025
I know it has been quite some time since I last saw and talked with Tim, but my thoughts and prayers are with you, Mclaren, and the rest of the family. Keep looking forward sharing your love with all one step, one day at a time.
Michael White
August 18, 2025
Sending love and hope from Fugett!
Matthew Hill
August 18, 2025
Mac, you and your family continue to be in our prayers for a strong recovery. Keep fighting! You are strong!
The Keefe family
Allison Keefe
August 18, 2025
Sending prayers for a full recovery!
Venessa Levin
August 18, 2025
sending love to your family!
sage difilippo
August 18, 2025
The Macauley family continues sending prayers of healing and strength to Mac and his family.
Kelly Macauley
August 18, 2025
Sending positive thoughts and prayers! Fight the good fight!
Tracy
Tracy Newcomer
August 18, 2025
Prayers, Strength, and Positivity for Mac, his family, and extended family!
Andrea Doyle
August 18, 2025
Wishing a safe and successful recovery. Nothing like this should happen to anyone, especially someone so young. Please, if you have the chance, donate to the cause.
Will Martin
August 18, 2025
The Moden family is rooting for you, TeamSlifer!
- Patty Cheung
Patricia Cheung
August 18, 2025
Keep fighting Team Slifer. We love you all.
The Foley Family
Dottie Foley
August 18, 2025
Mac-D’Angelo pray for you and team Slifer’s journey!
Jim Dangelo
August 18, 2025
I work with Cheryl. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I’m praying that Mac makes a full recovery❤️
Amy Thies
August 18, 2025
From your sisters at WCWMS - we are all thinking of you during this really hard time. We love you Melissa and whole Slifer family ! ❤️
Be Strong Mac….stay hopeful…. We are all pulling for you.
Colleen Kirk
Colleen Kirk
August 17, 2025
We live up the street from you and are cheering Mclaren on. We will pray for many miracles -
mary krueger
August 17, 2025
I am praying for Mac and the entire family. My heart ♥️ is full of hope for a healing recovery.
Lisa Eleftherakis
August 17, 2025
Wishing strength to all of you.
Marcy Bergin
August 17, 2025
I’ll be praying for you, Mac
Irene Jensen
August 17, 2025
May your journey to recovery be smooth and success and your spirit high remain high!
Tuan Nguyen
August 17, 2025
Mac, you've got this! The Masters are behind you, sending all the positive vibes your way. Keep pushing forward and remember, everyone is cheering you on!
Christine Masters
August 17, 2025
Your in our prayers, terry& betty mccabe
Elizabeth Mccabe
August 17, 2025
You are and will remain in our prayers! -The Schmid Family
Patrick Schmid
August 17, 2025
Keep fighting, Mac! Sending much support your way.
Amy Loftus
August 17, 2025
Sending positive thoughts and prayers for healing to Mac and the entire Slifer family.
Pam Armbruster
August 17, 2025
For Mclaren’a care and recovery
Zahra Farrokh
August 17, 2025
Sending prayers for a speedy recovery.
Jack McGlinchey
August 17, 2025
Prayers constantly in my heart, soul and mind for complete healing and peace for your family.
Jennifer Russell
August 17, 2025
Keeping you in my prayers.
Joanne Straub
August 17, 2025
Wishing you strength during your recovery!
Amy Snyder
August 17, 2025
Thinking of all of you. Love from the Klueber’s.
Tiffany Klueber
August 17, 2025
Sending prayers and healing love,Betsy
Betsy Zartman
August 17, 2025
Mac - I have such fond memories of you as a student at EGE. I am thinking of you and your family as you cope with all of this.
Bethany Gendron
August 17, 2025
Sending thoughts and prayers for Mac’s continued healing.
Karen & Brian Malone
August 17, 2025
Just wanted to let you know that our prayers and positive thoughts are with you. We’re rooting for you and sending strength your way. You’re got this!! ❤️
Lucinda and Kevin Garvey
August 17, 2025
The Cash Family holds you in our prayers as you recover and heal! Stay strong!!! You're in the best hands possible at BMRH!!!
Miriam Cash
August 17, 2025
Hang in there! Never give up and keep working on than!!
Ryan Bickle
August 17, 2025
Mac - we are praying everyday for all miracles, big or small. I hope you feel the love from all of us.
The Gallaghers
Aidan Gallagher
August 17, 2025
I wear my bracelet all the time and I’m always thinking of your family! I hope BMRH treats you well and best wishes.
- Alison and the BMRH diet office
Alison Alexis
August 17, 2025
Prayers for Mac's recovery and for his family as they navigate this journey
Donna & Frank Sabota
August 16, 2025
Sending healing thoughts to Mac during this difficult time.
Nina Mortelliti
August 16, 2025
Praying for your recovery-
Irma and Norm Maged (Shari’s parents)
Irma Maged
August 16, 2025
Thinking of you every day praying for a speedy recovery love aunt PAt
Patricia Dale
August 16, 2025
Holding you all close in prayer. #TeamSlifer
Sussn Flavin
August 16, 2025
I am a new member of WCWMS team. I have not gotten the chance to know you and your family much yet, but I am sending this out of respect for the loving, supportive community you co-founded. —Ally
Allyson Rourke
August 16, 2025
Prayers and Best wishes on your recovery. We will be thinking of you Mac and your entire family.
Love the Lanes
Bob Lane
August 16, 2025
Many healing blessings for Mac! I am proud of you and your family. You are all strong **’ers. Pray, Heal, Don’t Worry! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Cheryl Vassallo
August 16, 2025
Keep fighting- I’m rooting for your 100% recovery!
Fran Duffner
August 16, 2025
My thoughts and prayers are with your family - wishing with all my heart for continued improvements.
Sincerely,
Katie boucher
Katie Boucher
August 16, 2025
Sending many prayers and hugs! Keep fighting!
Dana Lewis
August 16, 2025
Melissa my heart goes out to your son and your family. Prayers and good vibes heading your way ❤️- Scooch
Jenn Hicks
August 16, 2025
I have been sending positive vibes your way. Keep fighting!
Christine Shindler
August 16, 2025
Sending healing prayers.
Lori Pedrick
August 16, 2025
What we wouldn’t give to be able to go back and change the events of that day. Thinking of you always. Keep fighting to heal and stay StrongMF!!
All our love, The Maun Family
Shari Maun
August 16, 2025
Sending good vibes for a quick recovery!!
Greg Gialloreto
August 16, 2025
Sending positive and healing vibes to Mac and Team Slifer.
Nicole Hall
August 16, 2025
Praying for healing and hope for Mac and the entire Slifer family.
Kira Maton
August 16, 2025
Many, many prayers sent your way!
Christina Slifer
August 16, 2025
Love and hugs to you all!
Megan Crump
August 16, 2025
Keeping your family in my prayers ❤️
Ashley Forsythe
August 16, 2025
Sending much love and strength to you guys and Mac❤️
Amy Latyak
August 16, 2025
We will keep Mac in our thoughts and prayers daily.
The McDermond Family
Heather McDermond
August 16, 2025
Prayers and blessings to your son and family
George Dale jr.
August 16, 2025
Prayers for all of you!
Angie Polizzi
August 16, 2025
We are here anytime if you need anything!
Mark McCaffrey
August 16, 2025
Thinking of your family and sending healing vibes to your son. ❤️
Eileen Gilmore Lanza
August 16, 2025
Thinking of Mac and all of TeamSlifer. From the Cadigan Family. #StrongMF
Robb Cadigan
August 16, 2025
Good thoughts and prayers always.
Susan Shelton
